tigre
Don Juan
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Some kid touching my girlfriend..what to do?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tigre
Don Juan
since when is threatening a guy for constantly grabbing your GF's ass being insecure? thats just a straight up disrespect towards your GF and yourself, and has to be dealt accordingly. I can see if the dude was talking to his GF and he went up and treaten him for doing that, that´s being insecure, but there are some things that should not be ignored(like a guy grabbing your GF´s ass whenever he feels like it).
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
List of AFC advice:
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
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Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
MVP°Ë¥°ËJI€GALO
Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tigre
Don Juan
I dont see how threatening that guy would make you seem like your looking for your GF´s approval, the way I see it is that guy(ass grabber) is disrespecting you(by grabbing your GF´s ass) and you shouldnt take his sh1t regardless of what your girl thinks about it. Obviously youre not goint to threaten him infront of your GF. This is really about that guy disrespecting you, I bet that guy went to all his little friends and started to talk sh1t about how he grabbed your GF´s ass and you didnt do **** about it.next thing you know everyone in school will try to grab your girls ass.haha
Ok so next time you and your GF get on the topic of the ass-grabber, get very forensic about it.
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
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When you're with her, and he comes along, say, so she - and maybe he - hears it, "ah, he's just the cutest thing, isn't he?"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by ASD
I have to say I could not agree more.
What the fvck - desperate guys say such things hoping the girl would say "No-no, I love you and I would never want the other guy" and jump their bones.
Right on dude...
let's stop overthinking this, shall we? Just slap one of them in the face. You might want to make that slap emotional with the gf, but seriously, take some position here and tell both of them to stop being fags
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.