tigre
Don Juan
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Insecurity would do him more harm than good.Originally posted by tigre
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If his GF is flirtatious like that, then she doesn't "deserve" him. The way you suggest he handle the situation, he would have to "prove" himself to his GF. Women aren't attracted to men who need their approval.Originally posted by tigre
since when is threatening a guy for constantly grabbing your GF's ass being insecure? thats just a straight up disrespect towards your GF and yourself, and has to be dealt accordingly. I can see if the dude was talking to his GF and he went up and treaten him for doing that, that´s being insecure, but there are some things that should not be ignored(like a guy grabbing your GF´s ass whenever he feels like it).
When you're with her, and he comes along, say, so she - and maybe he - hears it, "ah, he's just the cutest thing, isn't he?"Originally posted by shark
Well this kid is a year younger, and he is on friendly terms with my GF i'd say. A few weeks ago he smacked her butt hard and she got pissed (her way of getting pissed was like smiling and running around) so i made a joke to the kid to show like i confident with my girl and could keep my cool. w/e, possibly stupid mistake
yesterday im holding her in the shcool and he come by and i guess gently touches it again. She said like "his name" in a quiet and surprised way. I had no idea untill she walked away and started telling me and saying how i dont care and im blind and i dont do anything. So.. now im pissed b/c the kid touched my GF and i didn't see it, and my GF is calling me out!
So how/what do i handle the situatuon. When i was leaving i was going to say something to him but i couldnt find him he left.
Should i say something to him like a threat? Get one of my friends who talks to him to tell him to back off, or tell my girlfriend she may be leading him on to much and has to seriously ask him to stop.
I feel pissed that she kinda challenged my "manhood" by saying i dont care or do anything.
I can just message him online, but it's weird since i dont really talk to him. And going up to him seems weird, but i guess that may be the onyl way to look like a man. Telling my friend would be easiest..but i'd be a wuss right? Unless i somehow get him to say something and make it look liek i did. who knows..
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I have to say I could not agree more.Originally posted by MightyMate
AFC advice: bluelemond
'I went up to him and said yo, you gotta stop touching my girlfriend. He said ok and seemed cool with it..
Originally posted by ASD![]()
I have to say I could not agree more.
What the fvck - desperate guys say such things hoping the girl would say "No-no, I love you and I would never want the other guy" and jump their bones.
tell your GF how you feel (I guess you already did that). It's her job to tell him to stop.....not yours. You don't own her.Originally posted by shark
Well this kid is a year younger, and he is on friendly terms with my GF i'd say. A few weeks ago he smacked her butt hard and she got pissed (her way of getting pissed was like smiling and running around) so i made a joke to the kid to show like i confident with my girl and could keep my cool. w/e, possibly stupid mistake
yesterday im holding her in the shcool and he come by and i guess gently touches it again. She said like "his name" in a quiet and surprised way. I had no idea untill she walked away and started telling me and saying how i dont care and im blind and i dont do anything. So.. now im pissed b/c the kid touched my GF and i didn't see it, and my GF is calling me out!
So how/what do i handle the situatuon. When i was leaving i was going to say something to him but i couldnt find him he left.
Should i say something to him like a threat? Get one of my friends who talks to him to tell him to back off, or tell my girlfriend she may be leading him on to much and has to seriously ask him to stop.
I feel pissed that she kinda challenged my "manhood" by saying i dont care or do anything.
I can just message him online, but it's weird since i dont really talk to him. And going up to him seems weird, but i guess that may be the onyl way to look like a man. Telling my friend would be easiest..but i'd be a wuss right? Unless i somehow get him to say something and make it look liek i did. who knows..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.