tigre
Don Juan
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Some kid touching my girlfriend..what to do?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tigre
Don Juan
since when is threatening a guy for constantly grabbing your GF's ass being insecure? thats just a straight up disrespect towards your GF and yourself, and has to be dealt accordingly. I can see if the dude was talking to his GF and he went up and treaten him for doing that, that´s being insecure, but there are some things that should not be ignored(like a guy grabbing your GF´s ass whenever he feels like it).
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
List of AFC advice:
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
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Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
LaDanian Tomlinson
MightyMate
MVP°Ë¥°ËJI€GALO
Phat (sort of)
Good advice:
AC/DC
Hell, I don't have time to make a list...haha
But seriously that's the list for about the first half of the page.
Here is your answer shark.
1) If she really doesn't want that guy touching her then SHE would do something about it. She is testing you to see how you are affected.
2) Tell your gf that she and the other guy (the one that touches her ass), would look good together as a couple and that she should go for him. Say this half-jokingly.
3) When he does it while you are right next to her or what not, pretend like your giving up. Half-jokingly say that she is all his and that she is all his (almost like you are taking turns). If she doesn't laugh at this and if she doesn't reject him at this point then she probably is a slut and/or this other guy has more game then you do.
Remember shark, YOU are the PRIZE, not her.
Read this: (especially you guys in the AFC advice list)
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tigre
Don Juan
I dont see how threatening that guy would make you seem like your looking for your GF´s approval, the way I see it is that guy(ass grabber) is disrespecting you(by grabbing your GF´s ass) and you shouldnt take his sh1t regardless of what your girl thinks about it. Obviously youre not goint to threaten him infront of your GF. This is really about that guy disrespecting you, I bet that guy went to all his little friends and started to talk sh1t about how he grabbed your GF´s ass and you didnt do **** about it.next thing you know everyone in school will try to grab your girls ass.haha
Ok so next time you and your GF get on the topic of the ass-grabber, get very forensic about it.
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
*ask her exactly when and where it happened, just in a fun and serious interview-tone
*Next, say," Was it like this?" and proceed to slap or grab her heiney.
*When she opens her mouth to respond, continue with "or more like this," (do an exaggerated massage on a cheek), "'cause it really affects what his punishment will be..."
* if all goes well be sure to get in a "credit card swipe" between the cheeks. Anytime is good... just add in "so just to make sure, he didn't do THIS did he?" (with a grin) and follow through.
Get the balls for it if you dont already. She will love it and whe won't stop giggling for afew min.
~If you could be a "tough guy" and end up getting someone hurt or making a fool of yourself, why not, instead, find a way to use humor and confidence as an alternative?~
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When you're with her, and he comes along, say, so she - and maybe he - hears it, "ah, he's just the cutest thing, isn't he?"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by ASD
I have to say I could not agree more.
What the fvck - desperate guys say such things hoping the girl would say "No-no, I love you and I would never want the other guy" and jump their bones.
Right on dude...
let's stop overthinking this, shall we? Just slap one of them in the face. You might want to make that slap emotional with the gf, but seriously, take some position here and tell both of them to stop being fags
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.