tigre
Don Juan
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Insecurity would do him more harm than good.Originally posted by tigre
stop being a pvssy and go there and threaten the guy, then go and tell your GF to stop being such a slvt for letting any random guy grab her ass and not doing anything.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If his GF is flirtatious like that, then she doesn't "deserve" him. The way you suggest he handle the situation, he would have to "prove" himself to his GF. Women aren't attracted to men who need their approval.Originally posted by tigre
since when is threatening a guy for constantly grabbing your GF's ass being insecure? thats just a straight up disrespect towards your GF and yourself, and has to be dealt accordingly. I can see if the dude was talking to his GF and he went up and treaten him for doing that, that´s being insecure, but there are some things that should not be ignored(like a guy grabbing your GF´s ass whenever he feels like it).
When you're with her, and he comes along, say, so she - and maybe he - hears it, "ah, he's just the cutest thing, isn't he?"Originally posted by shark
Well this kid is a year younger, and he is on friendly terms with my GF i'd say. A few weeks ago he smacked her butt hard and she got pissed (her way of getting pissed was like smiling and running around) so i made a joke to the kid to show like i confident with my girl and could keep my cool. w/e, possibly stupid mistake
yesterday im holding her in the shcool and he come by and i guess gently touches it again. She said like "his name" in a quiet and surprised way. I had no idea untill she walked away and started telling me and saying how i dont care and im blind and i dont do anything. So.. now im pissed b/c the kid touched my GF and i didn't see it, and my GF is calling me out!
So how/what do i handle the situatuon. When i was leaving i was going to say something to him but i couldnt find him he left.
Should i say something to him like a threat? Get one of my friends who talks to him to tell him to back off, or tell my girlfriend she may be leading him on to much and has to seriously ask him to stop.
I feel pissed that she kinda challenged my "manhood" by saying i dont care or do anything.
I can just message him online, but it's weird since i dont really talk to him. And going up to him seems weird, but i guess that may be the onyl way to look like a man. Telling my friend would be easiest..but i'd be a wuss right? Unless i somehow get him to say something and make it look liek i did. who knows..
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I have to say I could not agree more.Originally posted by MightyMate
AFC advice: bluelemond
'I went up to him and said yo, you gotta stop touching my girlfriend. He said ok and seemed cool with it..
Originally posted by ASD![]()
I have to say I could not agree more.
What the fvck - desperate guys say such things hoping the girl would say "No-no, I love you and I would never want the other guy" and jump their bones.
tell your GF how you feel (I guess you already did that). It's her job to tell him to stop.....not yours. You don't own her.Originally posted by shark
Well this kid is a year younger, and he is on friendly terms with my GF i'd say. A few weeks ago he smacked her butt hard and she got pissed (her way of getting pissed was like smiling and running around) so i made a joke to the kid to show like i confident with my girl and could keep my cool. w/e, possibly stupid mistake
yesterday im holding her in the shcool and he come by and i guess gently touches it again. She said like "his name" in a quiet and surprised way. I had no idea untill she walked away and started telling me and saying how i dont care and im blind and i dont do anything. So.. now im pissed b/c the kid touched my GF and i didn't see it, and my GF is calling me out!
So how/what do i handle the situatuon. When i was leaving i was going to say something to him but i couldnt find him he left.
Should i say something to him like a threat? Get one of my friends who talks to him to tell him to back off, or tell my girlfriend she may be leading him on to much and has to seriously ask him to stop.
I feel pissed that she kinda challenged my "manhood" by saying i dont care or do anything.
I can just message him online, but it's weird since i dont really talk to him. And going up to him seems weird, but i guess that may be the onyl way to look like a man. Telling my friend would be easiest..but i'd be a wuss right? Unless i somehow get him to say something and make it look liek i did. who knows..
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.