zekko
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The guys here are all Alpha Males so there shouldn't be any problems.What will the majority of men on here do then?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The guys here are all Alpha Males so there shouldn't be any problems.What will the majority of men on here do then?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yeah she was smoking hot and yeah it crushed me, hence how I ended up here on this forum and into MGTOW/Red Pill.Was she hot? That must have been demoralizing she left you for a crackhead.
Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.5 foot tall guy? And us guys in the 5 foot 6 to 5 foot 10 range complain about not being over 6 foot tall. We should be thankful we're not like that. 5 foot tall and totally screwed.
And all these women fudge their heights 3 to 5 inches on old too I notice. Even the hot ones.Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.
I totally get how a lot of women are hung up on 6+ feet, but I can’t waste time worrying about 2 inches even though I’m technically a high functioning manlet lol.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The sad part is that by today's standards, you are a manlet, and you heightmog me by about as much as I heightmog the subject of this thread.Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.
I totally get how a lot of women are hung up on 6+ feet, but I can’t waste time worrying about 2 inches even though I’m technically a high functioning manlet lol.
I wonder if all the weightlifting I did as a lad had compressed me.The average height is 5"9.5 inches in the USA. Here's the funny thing when you wake up your a whole inch or sometimes 1 1/2 inches taller by the time night time rolls around your spine is compressed and you shrink an inch. That alone proves you can maybe with proper posture yoga or stretching gain an inch or 2.
When I wake up I'm 5 11 I have it measured and mark. By the time it reaches night time after a day of work or sitting around before I go to bed and measure myself I'm 5 10. This is medically known to as your spine compresses from waking, or sitting around. Try it sometime, let's say I wake up at 8 eat breakfast go to work for 8 hours, hit the gym whatever etc. Now I'm preparing for bed it's 10 o clock measure yourself you'll be an inch shorter than the morning's measurement
For the most part, I don't think guys care much about women's height. In fact, I like them short. But it's far from a dealbreaker. A lot of guys don't want the girl to be taller than them, but I don't understand why a woman would want to lie about their height. Who would care?And all these women fudge their heights 3 to 5 inches on old too I notice. Even the hot ones.
I agree. I'm barely 5 foot 9 in the morning but like that 49 year old hottie I'm talking to was listed 5 foot 2 but seemed more like 5 foot 1. Again very hot face and smile and athletic and petite. But like when she grabbed me from the side and hugged me her head went into my shoulders because she was quite a bit shorter. Not a deal breaker but just a little odd because not eye level.For the most part, I don't think guys care much about women's height. In fact, I like them short. But it's far from a dealbreaker. A lot of guys don't want the girl to be taller than them, but I don't understand why a woman would want to lie about their height. Who would care?
I didn't see it, but I'm mystified as to why you would ghost a girl over a one inch difference in height. Unless your issue was that she was being deceitful, but even then I don't think that would bother me, girls are weird about certain things. I don't like dishonesty, but something like this sounds more about being a girl than a character issue.You saw my post about ghosting an hb 8.5 on match cause she was only 5 foot 1 and not five 2 right?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I fudge my height a couple inches too but in her case it's because she was only 5 foot 1 and looked it. Stupid me because she was nearly hb9 and and only 29 years old and not post wall. Never married no kids and here I am going for past wall now.I didn't see it, but I'm mystified as to why you would ghost a girl over a one inch difference in height. Unless your issue was that she was being deceitful, but even then I don't think that would bother me, girls are weird about certain things. I don't like dishonesty, but something like this sounds more about being a girl than a character issue.
Society standards don't define me, that's the problem with a lot of the man child's on this message board. You guys generally like categorizing yourself and other people. I am in decent shape now from months ago, I'm average height and I'm balding and I'm pulling ladies. I still strike out but other men do as well. I have personally and seen average heights guys pull the prettier women at social events as opposed to the 6"3 Chad. Stop comparing yourself with other men it's gay as hell. That's why some guys can't get laid, looks, body, charisma, aura, sexual energy all factor in to attraction its not all about looks.The sad part is that by today's standards, you are a manlet, and you heightmog me by about as much as I heightmog the subject of this thread.![]()
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.