zekko
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The guys here are all Alpha Males so there shouldn't be any problems.What will the majority of men on here do then?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The guys here are all Alpha Males so there shouldn't be any problems.What will the majority of men on here do then?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yeah she was smoking hot and yeah it crushed me, hence how I ended up here on this forum and into MGTOW/Red Pill.Was she hot? That must have been demoralizing she left you for a crackhead.
Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.5 foot tall guy? And us guys in the 5 foot 6 to 5 foot 10 range complain about not being over 6 foot tall. We should be thankful we're not like that. 5 foot tall and totally screwed.
And all these women fudge their heights 3 to 5 inches on old too I notice. Even the hot ones.Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.
I totally get how a lot of women are hung up on 6+ feet, but I can’t waste time worrying about 2 inches even though I’m technically a high functioning manlet lol.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The sad part is that by today's standards, you are a manlet, and you heightmog me by about as much as I heightmog the subject of this thread.Agreed. I’m 5’10” and don’t give a shyte about not being 6 feet.
I totally get how a lot of women are hung up on 6+ feet, but I can’t waste time worrying about 2 inches even though I’m technically a high functioning manlet lol.
I wonder if all the weightlifting I did as a lad had compressed me.The average height is 5"9.5 inches in the USA. Here's the funny thing when you wake up your a whole inch or sometimes 1 1/2 inches taller by the time night time rolls around your spine is compressed and you shrink an inch. That alone proves you can maybe with proper posture yoga or stretching gain an inch or 2.
When I wake up I'm 5 11 I have it measured and mark. By the time it reaches night time after a day of work or sitting around before I go to bed and measure myself I'm 5 10. This is medically known to as your spine compresses from waking, or sitting around. Try it sometime, let's say I wake up at 8 eat breakfast go to work for 8 hours, hit the gym whatever etc. Now I'm preparing for bed it's 10 o clock measure yourself you'll be an inch shorter than the morning's measurement
For the most part, I don't think guys care much about women's height. In fact, I like them short. But it's far from a dealbreaker. A lot of guys don't want the girl to be taller than them, but I don't understand why a woman would want to lie about their height. Who would care?And all these women fudge their heights 3 to 5 inches on old too I notice. Even the hot ones.
I agree. I'm barely 5 foot 9 in the morning but like that 49 year old hottie I'm talking to was listed 5 foot 2 but seemed more like 5 foot 1. Again very hot face and smile and athletic and petite. But like when she grabbed me from the side and hugged me her head went into my shoulders because she was quite a bit shorter. Not a deal breaker but just a little odd because not eye level.For the most part, I don't think guys care much about women's height. In fact, I like them short. But it's far from a dealbreaker. A lot of guys don't want the girl to be taller than them, but I don't understand why a woman would want to lie about their height. Who would care?
I didn't see it, but I'm mystified as to why you would ghost a girl over a one inch difference in height. Unless your issue was that she was being deceitful, but even then I don't think that would bother me, girls are weird about certain things. I don't like dishonesty, but something like this sounds more about being a girl than a character issue.You saw my post about ghosting an hb 8.5 on match cause she was only 5 foot 1 and not five 2 right?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I fudge my height a couple inches too but in her case it's because she was only 5 foot 1 and looked it. Stupid me because she was nearly hb9 and and only 29 years old and not post wall. Never married no kids and here I am going for past wall now.I didn't see it, but I'm mystified as to why you would ghost a girl over a one inch difference in height. Unless your issue was that she was being deceitful, but even then I don't think that would bother me, girls are weird about certain things. I don't like dishonesty, but something like this sounds more about being a girl than a character issue.
Society standards don't define me, that's the problem with a lot of the man child's on this message board. You guys generally like categorizing yourself and other people. I am in decent shape now from months ago, I'm average height and I'm balding and I'm pulling ladies. I still strike out but other men do as well. I have personally and seen average heights guys pull the prettier women at social events as opposed to the 6"3 Chad. Stop comparing yourself with other men it's gay as hell. That's why some guys can't get laid, looks, body, charisma, aura, sexual energy all factor in to attraction its not all about looks.The sad part is that by today's standards, you are a manlet, and you heightmog me by about as much as I heightmog the subject of this thread.![]()
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.