Great. I’ll just go professional and don’t go any other roads with her. When she asks me let’s have drinks again I fvck her Brains our, otherwise only work. I spin some more plates. I’ve made a fool of myself.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Great. I’ll just go professional and don’t go any other roads with her. When she asks me let’s have drinks again I fvck her Brains our, otherwise only work. I spin some more plates. I’ve made a fool of myself.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer when her bf called , he picked her up.She was at your place and you just talked instead of touching her. And why was she not sitting next to you?
That's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer when her bf called , he picked her up.
She's probably just trying to make her bf jealous so he takes her home and hate fvcks herThat's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.
What I suspect is that this is a Grade A attention whoare that knows perfectly well what you want (because it's obvious), but plays stupid because she likes the attention.
Exactley. That’s what it is. So what would you do in my situation @batsoupThat's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.
What I suspect is that this is a Grade A attention whoare that knows perfectly well what you want (because it's obvious), but plays stupid because she likes the attention.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
exactley man, thats what I’m saying because he cheated on her, fvcked 4 girls after her and she is acting all big too him like look my boss invited me over..She's probably just trying to make her bf jealous so he takes her home and hate fvcks her
Beginners Seduction 101, she’s at your place, you tell her to have a seat, you sit next to her.She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer
This thread has regressed. Take some time to apply the above advice you gave to yourself on your 5th thread about the same woman.I chose for dignity, for my purpose and to listen to the brothers here that spit the truth. I go for a final decision. Totally cease, stop, go professional and see her totally as the employer she is. Going to focus fully on new women and stop this nonsense. Lets not react anymore on the previous threads so this can go to the history where it belongs. Thank you.