Great. I’ll just go professional and don’t go any other roads with her. When she asks me let’s have drinks again I fvck her Brains our, otherwise only work. I spin some more plates. I’ve made a fool of myself.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Great. I’ll just go professional and don’t go any other roads with her. When she asks me let’s have drinks again I fvck her Brains our, otherwise only work. I spin some more plates. I’ve made a fool of myself.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer when her bf called , he picked her up.She was at your place and you just talked instead of touching her. And why was she not sitting next to you?
That's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer when her bf called , he picked her up.
She's probably just trying to make her bf jealous so he takes her home and hate fvcks herThat's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.
What I suspect is that this is a Grade A attention whoare that knows perfectly well what you want (because it's obvious), but plays stupid because she likes the attention.
Exactley. That’s what it is. So what would you do in my situation @batsoupThat's what I mean by her subtly cokkblocking you. She could have chose to sit anywhere, but she sat far away and arranged for another guy to come over within a short period of time. She did that deliberately.
What I suspect is that this is a Grade A attention whoare that knows perfectly well what you want (because it's obvious), but plays stupid because she likes the attention.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
exactley man, thats what I’m saying because he cheated on her, fvcked 4 girls after her and she is acting all big too him like look my boss invited me over..She's probably just trying to make her bf jealous so he takes her home and hate fvcks her
Beginners Seduction 101, she’s at your place, you tell her to have a seat, you sit next to her.She was sitting on the other side of the couch. I was heating her up talking and was almost ready to ask her to come closer
This thread has regressed. Take some time to apply the above advice you gave to yourself on your 5th thread about the same woman.I chose for dignity, for my purpose and to listen to the brothers here that spit the truth. I go for a final decision. Totally cease, stop, go professional and see her totally as the employer she is. Going to focus fully on new women and stop this nonsense. Lets not react anymore on the previous threads so this can go to the history where it belongs. Thank you.