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I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So much hate for women on this site :(
- Thread starter djgirl
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Aristippus
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What I've noticed is that it doesn't matter which woman starts a topic. No matter how stupid she is or how little value or insight she has, too many guys on here are chomping at the bit to get her attention. The pattern, and I don't know why this is the pattern, but it's always some self-centered broad that tries to appear intelligent that starts a topic (when a female chooses to).Atom Smasher said:
She usually tries to put on a front of being intelligent and at some point she even has to say "Look at me! I'm intelligent!". Suuuuure you are, Einstein.
*Note: Einstein never had to say "Look at me! I'm so smart!". People KNEW he was smart. His intelligence spoke for itself. Anyone who has to tell you "Look how smart I am!", probably isn't very intelligent.
At some point the woman who chooses to start a topic here goes on a tangent about how she's different than the other women and she can't understand why she's being pumped and dumped. Meanwhile, at points during her commentary, there are hints that she's just a woman who is a pain in the a$$ and has entitlement issues. These are the ones that attract the men that are simply looking for a roll in the hay and nothing else. When a man who's looking for a relationship runs into one of these women, sooner or later, her lack of brains and entitlement issues scare him away. But for some reason there are always a few guys on here who don't see through it and to top it off, they even try to play nice and tell her how they're not like the other men.
Others try to have intelligent discussion with an unintelligent person. Gentleman, it's like discussing philosophy with a chimpanzee. Like I said, there are some women you can have a decent conversation with that have some ability to reason and some intelligence.
For some reason, that's not the female demographic that chooses to start a topic here on the rare occasion that a woman actually DOES decide to start or enter a discussion.
I have yet to see anything of value come out of DJGirl's mouth or any other woman that chooses to enter discussion here. Why that particular segment of the female population chooses to peek its head in here every so often is a mystery to me! If an intelligent woman actually chose to enter a discussion here, trust me, she wouldn't have to tell everyone how intelligent she is.
Daily Insanity
Don Juan
Guys what the hell are you all still doing populating this thread?? Move on, get out there in the field, stop wasting your time debating this old issue, we'll always blame someone else and not ourselves. End of story
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think we should all just agree that men and women think different and will probably never understand each other. Some of you guys think that your gender is untouchable but in reality it has just as many cracks as my gender.
I also never claimed to be better then other girls, i have faults and have made mistakes too but hey im sure you guys have aswell. i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time. However some context in this forum can apply to me and my "game" for scoring chicks but anyways
I also never claimed to be better then other girls, i have faults and have made mistakes too but hey im sure you guys have aswell. i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time. However some context in this forum can apply to me and my "game" for scoring chicks but anyways
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
For the love of God, if any of you engage her on this one I'll personally ban you LOL!
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djgirl,
I read through all your post and you are right. I'll start applying what I learned in this thread toward my interactions with women. Many thanks.
I read through all your post and you are right. I'll start applying what I learned in this thread toward my interactions with women. Many thanks.
wait_out
Master Don Juan
Pretty much. Understand it, and stop internalizing it.djgirl said:
It is fun cruising girls with another girl, but you're sensitive and have a bit of victim mentality which will mess up your game. You're also trying to either validate yourself in this thread or are intentionally looking to get flamed. Both are signs of compulsion, not clear intentional decisions. What are you trying to prove, and to whom?
If you are getting blown out by girls/used by guys on a regular basis, other people aren't the problem. I suggest you stop stirring the pot here and focus on yourself, that is the only way to make progress.
You can also poke around on reddit for advice as a bi girl. If you are thin-skinned, it will be better for you in the long run.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You mean "one fewer crack -- it makes all the difference in the world" or something to that effect? Naaw! That one's just too easy.Atom Smasher said:For the love of God, if any of you engage her on this one I'll personally ban you LOL!
Almost forgot: perseverence, thanks for the rep! I appreciate that you took the high road even though I poked fun at your post -- to make a point for men trying to overcome frustrations they never bargained for.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Translation: "Nothing to see here, don't bother trying to understand the intergender dynamics of women, even attempting critical analysis makes you a bitter, misogynistic, sexless loser, just be thankful any HB4 would graciously spread her legs for you, you don't know how lucky you men are to "run the world."djgirl said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Djgirl, read Desdinova's post on feminism causing women to be less feminine. Then read it again.
And if you think Julia Gillard is doing a good job running this country, you seriously need to pull your head out of your arse and get educated.
Most political observers of any note and credibility agree that she is the worst prime minister we have had.
As for all women in management positions, I really don't like the fact that my career - and my country - is in the hands of someone who has the propensity to completely lose touch with reality once every 28 days.
And if you think Julia Gillard is doing a good job running this country, you seriously need to pull your head out of your arse and get educated.
Most political observers of any note and credibility agree that she is the worst prime minister we have had.
As for all women in management positions, I really don't like the fact that my career - and my country - is in the hands of someone who has the propensity to completely lose touch with reality once every 28 days.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
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:crackup: :crackup:BeginningDJ said:
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
perseverance said:I was having a laugh you wally.
wally? now you've gone and hurt my feeling, and it was the last one I had left too
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I highly doubt Jesus would spoken like that, for the English language didn't exist when Jesus roamed the Earth.Kbomb said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.