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I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What I've noticed is that it doesn't matter which woman starts a topic. No matter how stupid she is or how little value or insight she has, too many guys on here are chomping at the bit to get her attention. The pattern, and I don't know why this is the pattern, but it's always some self-centered broad that tries to appear intelligent that starts a topic (when a female chooses to).Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
well the same can be said if a member starts a thread too...Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Pretty much. Understand it, and stop internalizing it.djgirl said:i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You mean "one fewer crack -- it makes all the difference in the world" or something to that effect? Naaw! That one's just too easy.Atom Smasher said:For the love of God, if any of you engage her on this one I'll personally ban you LOL!![]()
Five pages later and this is the climax of the thread? We already know this.djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different
I think that's the kind of women who are actually smart enough to let men be men.Aristippus said:For some reason, that's not the female demographic that chooses to start a topic here on the rare occasion that a woman actually DOES decide to start or enter a discussion.
oh wow...this is new!!!!!djgirl said:I also never claimed to be better then other girls, i have faults and have made mistakes too but hey im sure you guys have aswell. i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time. However some context in this forum can apply to me and my "game" for scoring chicks but anyways
Translation: "Nothing to see here, don't bother trying to understand the intergender dynamics of women, even attempting critical analysis makes you a bitter, misogynistic, sexless loser, just be thankful any HB4 would graciously spread her legs for you, you don't know how lucky you men are to "run the world."djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different and will probably never understand each other,...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup: :crackup:BeginningDJ said:djgirl,
I read through all your post and you are right. I'll start applying what I learned in this thread toward my interactions with women. Many thanks.
perseverance said:I was having a laugh you wally.![]()
I highly doubt Jesus would spoken like that, for the English language didn't exist when Jesus roamed the Earth.Kbomb said:Jesus said it best, "F^ck you douchebag's who blame other people for your own shortcomings, and stop sucking each others D*icks."
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.