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I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What I've noticed is that it doesn't matter which woman starts a topic. No matter how stupid she is or how little value or insight she has, too many guys on here are chomping at the bit to get her attention. The pattern, and I don't know why this is the pattern, but it's always some self-centered broad that tries to appear intelligent that starts a topic (when a female chooses to).Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
well the same can be said if a member starts a thread too...Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Pretty much. Understand it, and stop internalizing it.djgirl said:i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You mean "one fewer crack -- it makes all the difference in the world" or something to that effect? Naaw! That one's just too easy.Atom Smasher said:For the love of God, if any of you engage her on this one I'll personally ban you LOL!![]()
Five pages later and this is the climax of the thread? We already know this.djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different
I think that's the kind of women who are actually smart enough to let men be men.Aristippus said:For some reason, that's not the female demographic that chooses to start a topic here on the rare occasion that a woman actually DOES decide to start or enter a discussion.
oh wow...this is new!!!!!djgirl said:I also never claimed to be better then other girls, i have faults and have made mistakes too but hey im sure you guys have aswell. i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time. However some context in this forum can apply to me and my "game" for scoring chicks but anyways
Translation: "Nothing to see here, don't bother trying to understand the intergender dynamics of women, even attempting critical analysis makes you a bitter, misogynistic, sexless loser, just be thankful any HB4 would graciously spread her legs for you, you don't know how lucky you men are to "run the world."djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different and will probably never understand each other,...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: :crackup:BeginningDJ said:djgirl,
I read through all your post and you are right. I'll start applying what I learned in this thread toward my interactions with women. Many thanks.
perseverance said:I was having a laugh you wally.![]()
I highly doubt Jesus would spoken like that, for the English language didn't exist when Jesus roamed the Earth.Kbomb said:Jesus said it best, "F^ck you douchebag's who blame other people for your own shortcomings, and stop sucking each others D*icks."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.