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I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I was having a laugh you wally.Purefilth said:of course, thats why I'm here.
shame you dont have a sense of humor, more of a shame that you seem to think your opinion of me actually matters:moon:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What I've noticed is that it doesn't matter which woman starts a topic. No matter how stupid she is or how little value or insight she has, too many guys on here are chomping at the bit to get her attention. The pattern, and I don't know why this is the pattern, but it's always some self-centered broad that tries to appear intelligent that starts a topic (when a female chooses to).Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
well the same can be said if a member starts a thread too...Atom Smasher said:Has anybody noticed that whenever a woman starts a post on SS it causes us to start bickering and turning against each other? I think that is worthy of note.
Pretty much. Understand it, and stop internalizing it.djgirl said:i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You mean "one fewer crack -- it makes all the difference in the world" or something to that effect? Naaw! That one's just too easy.Atom Smasher said:For the love of God, if any of you engage her on this one I'll personally ban you LOL!![]()
Five pages later and this is the climax of the thread? We already know this.djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different
I think that's the kind of women who are actually smart enough to let men be men.Aristippus said:For some reason, that's not the female demographic that chooses to start a topic here on the rare occasion that a woman actually DOES decide to start or enter a discussion.
oh wow...this is new!!!!!djgirl said:I also never claimed to be better then other girls, i have faults and have made mistakes too but hey im sure you guys have aswell. i dont like to see all the woman bashing on here but i should get used to it since its coming from bitter rejected men most of the time. However some context in this forum can apply to me and my "game" for scoring chicks but anyways
Translation: "Nothing to see here, don't bother trying to understand the intergender dynamics of women, even attempting critical analysis makes you a bitter, misogynistic, sexless loser, just be thankful any HB4 would graciously spread her legs for you, you don't know how lucky you men are to "run the world."djgirl said:I think we should all just agree that men and women think different and will probably never understand each other,...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:crackup: :crackup:BeginningDJ said:djgirl,
I read through all your post and you are right. I'll start applying what I learned in this thread toward my interactions with women. Many thanks.
perseverance said:I was having a laugh you wally.![]()
I highly doubt Jesus would spoken like that, for the English language didn't exist when Jesus roamed the Earth.Kbomb said:Jesus said it best, "F^ck you douchebag's who blame other people for your own shortcomings, and stop sucking each others D*icks."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.