"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I've been thinking...

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Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
I am all ears mate. You can be the real life barny stintson blogging anonymously about the bachelor life and your playbook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
 

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So many men get into a henpecked or cvcked position. Sex gone. Shes bossing him. Likely fvcking others. Many men would like to resolve this position and return to having his balls and sex with his wife. All the current materials that are out there don't work. Hundreds of millions of men around the globe would like some guidelines from shifting out of this position and of course most want to try to keep the gf or wife. Let's discuss? This is a MONEY maker. I understand the position.
 

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Hi Des,
I have always found your posts pretty well agree with my mindset and would appreciate reading your wisdom...The one size fits all approach,of most dating advice doesn't suit me...I also think that being a Canadian,you come from similar stock and have a values systems not much different to my own,I would value your profound insights.
 

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
I would make audio book in this time, most people are moving to audio books because they dont have desire to read, audio books also sold far more expensive than e-books.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
I'd be very interested in how this turns out. Will you cover things like flakes, when to call, flirting, not being a dancing monkey, and all the nitty gritty details like that?
 

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I've often thought about doing the same thing but I'm certain you can do it better.

One area I would like to see discussed with dealing with women in the workplace. I see so many guys get played by women s superior pack politics.

Although I guess this could be whole thing of its own.
 

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I'd be very interested in how this turns out. Will you cover things like flakes, when to call, flirting, not being a dancing monkey, and all the nitty gritty details like that?
I'm not focusing on the basics of dating, although I may occasionally touch on it. There's enough information out there about how to find, meet, attract, and fvck a woman. I'm more focused on how women think, react, make decisions, etc. I'm also focusing on why women do the things they do and how they come to be the creatures they are. Other things I'll be touching on are things men should do to strengthen their confidence and be successful, as well as how society works against our abilities to find ourselves a good woman.

Some days I sit here and read the posts and feel like there's a huge gap of knowledge between fvcking random slvts and how feminism has destroyed society. I'm hoping what I write can help fill in some blanks. I feel like I see women and society in a way that most people don't. It's come to a point where I can predict outcomes of certain situations and I'm constantly being proven correct.

In some ways I guess it's a manual, but it's not a step-by-step kind of manual. It's more like a road map.
 

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There is demand for *positive* coping mechanisms for men in dry spells/no relationships
Heterosexual man will still be served well by penetrative sex of a receptive lady. His expectation and standard reality needs to be of being treated well by ladies.
 
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