“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I've been thinking...

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I've been thinking about putting all my thoughts, theories, and observations about women into written form. I always have things floating around in my brain, thinking "that would make a good post on Sosuave", but sometimes I feel like these small chunks of things that I post get lost or lose meaning due to the absence of all the other things that go along with it. In other words, I'm contemplating writing an ebook about women and how I understand them. I feel like it would be helpful to those who are desperately trying to fill their life with a female companion. I'd make it available for free download because I'd rather see men get the help they need as opposed to making money off it.

Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I think it’s a great idea. I’m always ready to hear the thoughts and opinions of others. It would be a project, but one that’s quite worthwhile.
 

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Would it be a manual or something deeper?
I have no desire to write a manual, but rather go really in depth into how things work. I'm not wanting to write about how to attract women because there's enough information kicking around on how to do that. It would be more on how women function, how society comes into play, and the problems as well as some solutions on how to make it work in your favor. I would also put some "inner game" stuff in there as well, but I wouldn't be solely focusing on that.

Women are interesting creatures, and I still feel like there are too many guys out there who expect women to behave logically. I would try communicating how they DON'T work logically.
 

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
It would just be an ebook. I'm not looking for mass distribution. To me, it would just be a really long sosuave post. When I write about something on this forum, I always feel like the post could use a lot more elaboration. I always feel like I'm limited by space when I'm posting things. If I put it all in a pdf, I have no limits.
 

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I'd be really interested to see something like this. We already have the introductory PDFs and guides here so I don't see why you couldn't write one
 

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Book of Pook is a great book, but it's mostly unattainable for an average guy. I think if you going to write a book you need to target your audience. If it's nice guys, appeal to them, if it's djs, appeal to them. You need a website to go along with the book, so that when people search google for something they find your book. How I come across all of this, I went online looking for relationship advice, and found david d's ebook. Something like that.
 

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You could try writing a seduction/human behavior/charisma set of books like Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" & "The 48 Laws of Power".......

"The Art of Seduction" has been very eye-opening for me.... At its core, the main lesson Greene preaches is "Choose the right victim" and "Mold yourself to fill some void that the victim is missing"....
 

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Women are interesting creatures, and I still feel like there are too many guys out there who expect women to behave logically. I would try communicating how they DON'T work logically.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has a lot of material on that theme. It would be good for you to read as background research of the topic.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If Rollo could do it, I don't see why you can't. The only question I'd ask yourself is do you have enough to say to fill a book? Seduction material is notorious for packing in a lot of filler material; taking 20 pages to say what could be said in a sentence or two.
Aye, there be plenty of wind bags around! :)
 

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Aye, there be plenty of wind bags around! :)
I think it's more that they are trying to disguise a few ideas as being a larger product. That they are intentionally trying to make it look like they have more to offer than they actually do. But yes, plenty of wind bags about.
 

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I've been thinking about putting all my thoughts, theories, and observations about women into written form. I always have things floating around in my brain, thinking "that would make a good post on Sosuave", but sometimes I feel like these small chunks of things that I post get lost or lose meaning due to the absence of all the other things that go along with it. In other words, I'm contemplating writing an ebook about women and how I understand them. I feel like it would be helpful to those who are desperately trying to fill their life with a female companion. I'd make it available for free download because I'd rather see men get the help they need as opposed to making money off it.

Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
These days marketing the book is more important than the book itself. Some people will buy it if it is too low price, but if you want to make real money most likely you will need some marketing efforts
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'd read it because you are a normal, humble guy with all the same struggles the rest of us have, and always very honest and open about them.
Hmm. Will people read a book on seduction if it's not written by a giant douche? That's a rare undertaking.
 

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No one reads anymore. You are better off making a series of youtube videos explaining your viewpoint
 

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I've always found your posts enlightening Des so I'd definitely read it if you do.

I actually want to create big post on here listing as many experiences I've had with women I can remember with lessons, theories, and even questions after each one. I've been telling myself I'd do this for years and haven't yet, but hopefully I'll get it posted soon.
 

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I'm in but I agree reading is so 1990s. I now look for the TLDR version of everything. Even videos I don't watch if they're longer than 10 mins. A good compromise is bullet point lists and if it's too long break it up into sections under different categories. Just my 2 cents.
 

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Do it Des. It would be a good read. You are practical & pragmatic with your head screwed on straight & lots of field experience.

Do it.

Cheers, BE
 
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