"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I've been thinking...

DEEZEDBRAH

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Not sure where I'd find the time to write it, but I know damn well it would flow once I start.

Any interest?
I am all ears mate. You can be the real life barny stintson blogging anonymously about the bachelor life and your playbook.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
 

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So many men get into a henpecked or cvcked position. Sex gone. Shes bossing him. Likely fvcking others. Many men would like to resolve this position and return to having his balls and sex with his wife. All the current materials that are out there don't work. Hundreds of millions of men around the globe would like some guidelines from shifting out of this position and of course most want to try to keep the gf or wife. Let's discuss? This is a MONEY maker. I understand the position.
 

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Hi Des,
I have always found your posts pretty well agree with my mindset and would appreciate reading your wisdom...The one size fits all approach,of most dating advice doesn't suit me...I also think that being a Canadian,you come from similar stock and have a values systems not much different to my own,I would value your profound insights.
 

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
I would make audio book in this time, most people are moving to audio books because they dont have desire to read, audio books also sold far more expensive than e-books.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Figured I'd give an update. I've been stuffing away notes about things I want to cover in the book. It's pretty extensive. I just really feel the need to get my thoughts in writing and have them all in one package, all tied together. I plan on writing it during the periods when I'm stuck in the city for work. Not sure how long it will take, but it will probably just flow once I start.
I'd be very interested in how this turns out. Will you cover things like flakes, when to call, flirting, not being a dancing monkey, and all the nitty gritty details like that?
 

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I've often thought about doing the same thing but I'm certain you can do it better.

One area I would like to see discussed with dealing with women in the workplace. I see so many guys get played by women s superior pack politics.

Although I guess this could be whole thing of its own.
 

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I'd be very interested in how this turns out. Will you cover things like flakes, when to call, flirting, not being a dancing monkey, and all the nitty gritty details like that?
I'm not focusing on the basics of dating, although I may occasionally touch on it. There's enough information out there about how to find, meet, attract, and fvck a woman. I'm more focused on how women think, react, make decisions, etc. I'm also focusing on why women do the things they do and how they come to be the creatures they are. Other things I'll be touching on are things men should do to strengthen their confidence and be successful, as well as how society works against our abilities to find ourselves a good woman.

Some days I sit here and read the posts and feel like there's a huge gap of knowledge between fvcking random slvts and how feminism has destroyed society. I'm hoping what I write can help fill in some blanks. I feel like I see women and society in a way that most people don't. It's come to a point where I can predict outcomes of certain situations and I'm constantly being proven correct.

In some ways I guess it's a manual, but it's not a step-by-step kind of manual. It's more like a road map.
 

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There is demand for *positive* coping mechanisms for men in dry spells/no relationships
Heterosexual man will still be served well by penetrative sex of a receptive lady. His expectation and standard reality needs to be of being treated well by ladies.
 
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