"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I've been dating a lesbian...

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Alright, so I have a male friend who introduced me to a female about four weeks ago, start of college semester. I'm in the my third year, she's entering her first. She "my type" (listens to my music, ect), and if it wasn't for my recent reading of the pook manual and this site, I'd idolize her.
Me and her have been "hanging out" (dinner, shopping) and I find out from my male friend this weekend that she has come out to only him that she thinks she is lesbian.
Now I see two issues, one, I have to convince her not to go the lez route (she's been in relationships with feminite/emo/***** men, and that's NOT me, I'm what she wanted/wants) even though she hasn't told me she's a lez yet.

Two, I have to make sure if I'm starting to enter the friend zone that I pull my balls back out of it. Is there a manual on that somewhere? I've already started to not respond to her texts quickly and pull back my time from her, becoming randomly unavailable.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PectoralisMajor said:
OR 3) you work your magic and get her to become a bi-sexual.

niiiiiiiiceeeeee :rock:
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+1 for the best solution
 
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convince her she's not a lesbian? dude, go out and find an AVAILABLE HETERO chick and quit wasting your time trying to convert her, trying to "save" her like you are some white Knight on a horse. You went "shopping" with her? Read up on plate spinning. But seriously, if you are serious about this you need to go back to the bible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Three things:

1 : She in not lesbian exactly. She's "at a turning point". She's been with enough femanine guys that she is fed up. And this seems like a choice to her.

2 : I don't want her bi.

3 : I do need to reread the DJ bible, as I didn't focus and skipped around. Thanks guys.

More input?
 
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I don't understand,I mean,what is it that you want from this girl?
 
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I've dated a girl who was "bi" for the sake of being hotter to guys, i got annoyed with that **** quick. But from what shes told me girls shes ****ed werent all that fun. So i'm sure you have a chance.
 
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Women are for the most are bisexual in nature. Don't ask me why, they just are. So yeah, she might like chicks.

Just to throw it out there, have you had sex with her? If you have, and she enjoyed it:

A) She is not that much of a lesbian and she told your friend that, because she thought he was trying to sleep with her.

B) Your friend is feeding you BS because he wants to sleep with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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