So I've been dating a lesbian...

[AF77]

Alright, so I have a male friend who introduced me to a female about four weeks ago, start of college semester. I'm in the my third year, she's entering her first. She "my type" (listens to my music, ect), and if it wasn't for my recent reading of the pook manual and this site, I'd idolize her.
Me and her have been "hanging out" (dinner, shopping) and I find out from my male friend this weekend that she has come out to only him that she thinks she is lesbian.
Now I see two issues, one, I have to convince her not to go the lez route (she's been in relationships with feminite/emo/***** men, and that's NOT me, I'm what she wanted/wants) even though she hasn't told me she's a lez yet.

Two, I have to make sure if I'm starting to enter the friend zone that I pull my balls back out of it. Is there a manual on that somewhere? I've already started to not respond to her texts quickly and pull back my time from her, becoming randomly unavailable.

Thanks

 

[PectoralisMajor]

OR 3) you work your magic and get her to become a bi-sexual.

niiiiiiiiceeeeee :rock:

 

[TheBaconator]

OR 3) you work your magic and get her to become a bi-sexual.

niiiiiiiiceeeeee :rock:

+1 for the best solution

 

[dadmonson]

Do things that only a man can do.

 

[decades]

convince her she's not a lesbian? dude, go out and find an AVAILABLE HETERO chick and quit wasting your time trying to convert her, trying to "save" her like you are some white Knight on a horse. You went "shopping" with her? Read up on plate spinning. But seriously, if you are serious about this you need to go back to the bible.

 

[jon3947]

have a threesome

 

[AF77]

Three things:

1 : She in not lesbian exactly. She's "at a turning point". She's been with enough femanine guys that she is fed up. And this seems like a choice to her.

2 : I don't want her bi.

3 : I do need to reread the DJ bible, as I didn't focus and skipped around. Thanks guys.

More input?

 

[Igetit!]

I don't understand,I mean,what is it that you want from this girl?

 

[hanson]

I've dated a girl who was "bi" for the sake of being hotter to guys, i got annoyed with that **** quick. But from what shes told me girls shes ****ed werent all that fun. So i'm sure you have a chance.

 

[theunflushables]

Women are for the most are bisexual in nature. Don't ask me why, they just are. So yeah, she might like chicks.

Just to throw it out there, have you had sex with her? If you have, and she enjoyed it:

A) She is not that much of a lesbian and she told your friend that, because she thought he was trying to sleep with her.

B) Your friend is feeding you BS because he wants to sleep with her.