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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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So I've been dating a lesbian...

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Alright, so I have a male friend who introduced me to a female about four weeks ago, start of college semester. I'm in the my third year, she's entering her first. She "my type" (listens to my music, ect), and if it wasn't for my recent reading of the pook manual and this site, I'd idolize her.
Me and her have been "hanging out" (dinner, shopping) and I find out from my male friend this weekend that she has come out to only him that she thinks she is lesbian.
Now I see two issues, one, I have to convince her not to go the lez route (she's been in relationships with feminite/emo/***** men, and that's NOT me, I'm what she wanted/wants) even though she hasn't told me she's a lez yet.

Two, I have to make sure if I'm starting to enter the friend zone that I pull my balls back out of it. Is there a manual on that somewhere? I've already started to not respond to her texts quickly and pull back my time from her, becoming randomly unavailable.

Thanks
 

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PectoralisMajor said:
OR 3) you work your magic and get her to become a bi-sexual.

niiiiiiiiceeeeee :rock:
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+1 for the best solution
 
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convince her she's not a lesbian? dude, go out and find an AVAILABLE HETERO chick and quit wasting your time trying to convert her, trying to "save" her like you are some white Knight on a horse. You went "shopping" with her? Read up on plate spinning. But seriously, if you are serious about this you need to go back to the bible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Three things:

1 : She in not lesbian exactly. She's "at a turning point". She's been with enough femanine guys that she is fed up. And this seems like a choice to her.

2 : I don't want her bi.

3 : I do need to reread the DJ bible, as I didn't focus and skipped around. Thanks guys.

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I don't understand,I mean,what is it that you want from this girl?
 
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I've dated a girl who was "bi" for the sake of being hotter to guys, i got annoyed with that **** quick. But from what shes told me girls shes ****ed werent all that fun. So i'm sure you have a chance.
 
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Women are for the most are bisexual in nature. Don't ask me why, they just are. So yeah, she might like chicks.

Just to throw it out there, have you had sex with her? If you have, and she enjoyed it:

A) She is not that much of a lesbian and she told your friend that, because she thought he was trying to sleep with her.

B) Your friend is feeding you BS because he wants to sleep with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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