"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I've been dating a lesbian...

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Alright, so I have a male friend who introduced me to a female about four weeks ago, start of college semester. I'm in the my third year, she's entering her first. She "my type" (listens to my music, ect), and if it wasn't for my recent reading of the pook manual and this site, I'd idolize her.
Me and her have been "hanging out" (dinner, shopping) and I find out from my male friend this weekend that she has come out to only him that she thinks she is lesbian.
Now I see two issues, one, I have to convince her not to go the lez route (she's been in relationships with feminite/emo/***** men, and that's NOT me, I'm what she wanted/wants) even though she hasn't told me she's a lez yet.

Two, I have to make sure if I'm starting to enter the friend zone that I pull my balls back out of it. Is there a manual on that somewhere? I've already started to not respond to her texts quickly and pull back my time from her, becoming randomly unavailable.

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PectoralisMajor said:
OR 3) you work your magic and get her to become a bi-sexual.

niiiiiiiiceeeeee :rock:
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+1 for the best solution
 
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convince her she's not a lesbian? dude, go out and find an AVAILABLE HETERO chick and quit wasting your time trying to convert her, trying to "save" her like you are some white Knight on a horse. You went "shopping" with her? Read up on plate spinning. But seriously, if you are serious about this you need to go back to the bible.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Three things:

1 : She in not lesbian exactly. She's "at a turning point". She's been with enough femanine guys that she is fed up. And this seems like a choice to her.

2 : I don't want her bi.

3 : I do need to reread the DJ bible, as I didn't focus and skipped around. Thanks guys.

More input?
 
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I don't understand,I mean,what is it that you want from this girl?
 
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I've dated a girl who was "bi" for the sake of being hotter to guys, i got annoyed with that **** quick. But from what shes told me girls shes ****ed werent all that fun. So i'm sure you have a chance.
 
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Women are for the most are bisexual in nature. Don't ask me why, they just are. So yeah, she might like chicks.

Just to throw it out there, have you had sex with her? If you have, and she enjoyed it:

A) She is not that much of a lesbian and she told your friend that, because she thought he was trying to sleep with her.

B) Your friend is feeding you BS because he wants to sleep with her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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