"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So is it time to delete hbs # from phone

JPlaya

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Used to have high interest, so I asked her to come drink and dhe said she cant drink that day so i offered another day and she said had to wake up early next day. Gave up after that lol, im not initiating anymore contact.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Le killeur

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Agreed, best way to get over them is to delete the # and forget. If they genuinely want you im sure you'll receieve a text from a 'random' number
 

JohnChops

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seriously, i deleted this girls number when i had high interest in her (too high) and once her number was gone it was easy to move on. The worst is if she texts you after you have forgotten about her though.
 

Zerro

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Espi said:
I never delete numbers.

Go cold on her until next friday. Not this friday but the following friday. Send a brief text letting her know that you'll be at ____ saturday night at ___ pm. Wanna join me for a drink?

If no response, keep the number and co cold for several weeks then send out another text along with any other women who have flaked in the past ("group text"). "Plans tonight?" Is all you need text. Occasionally you'll get 1 or 2 women that will respond.
Agreed. Just this last weekend I had a date with a chick who flaked on me two months earlier and whom I had left on the backburner since. If I had deleted her I wouldn't have had such a fun afternoon with her and apparently I did well enough that a couple days later she started initiating contact instead. Just because she's not beating down your door right now doesn't mean that she won't in the future.

I don't delete a number unless the chick has done something really disrespectful and I never wish to speak to her again. That happens pretty damn rarely.
 

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Ya I know she has interest, she just playing games right now. Some no contact will solve that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ENIGMA16

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I never delete numbers. I have a note on my phone that is titled "Phone Number Graveyard" that is full of girls whose number I "deleted" and no longer talk to. This gives me the opportunity to re-add her number if I re-establish contact but also know who is texting/calling me so that I'm not caught off guard. I have a strict rule that I can't contact anyone on the list, and that I have to add them into my phone first, but only with good reason.
 

Night-hawk

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Ya I rarely delete numbers...if anything I keep girls on for future entertainment should it arise. Who cares. I have only girls on my BBM right now, it's funny watching their statuses and pictures change lol, and at times I still have fun convos with them. You deleting girls is like you telling yourself you lost and aren't worth it. **** that, you never know what will arise...keep the potential in the air. You know what works for forgetting a girl even if she's on your phone...get 5 more girls on your phone.
 
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