"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So is it time to delete hbs # from phone

JPlaya

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Used to have high interest, so I asked her to come drink and dhe said she cant drink that day so i offered another day and she said had to wake up early next day. Gave up after that lol, im not initiating anymore contact.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Le killeur

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Agreed, best way to get over them is to delete the # and forget. If they genuinely want you im sure you'll receieve a text from a 'random' number
 

JohnChops

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seriously, i deleted this girls number when i had high interest in her (too high) and once her number was gone it was easy to move on. The worst is if she texts you after you have forgotten about her though.
 

Zerro

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Espi said:
I never delete numbers.

Go cold on her until next friday. Not this friday but the following friday. Send a brief text letting her know that you'll be at ____ saturday night at ___ pm. Wanna join me for a drink?

If no response, keep the number and co cold for several weeks then send out another text along with any other women who have flaked in the past ("group text"). "Plans tonight?" Is all you need text. Occasionally you'll get 1 or 2 women that will respond.
Agreed. Just this last weekend I had a date with a chick who flaked on me two months earlier and whom I had left on the backburner since. If I had deleted her I wouldn't have had such a fun afternoon with her and apparently I did well enough that a couple days later she started initiating contact instead. Just because she's not beating down your door right now doesn't mean that she won't in the future.

I don't delete a number unless the chick has done something really disrespectful and I never wish to speak to her again. That happens pretty damn rarely.
 

JPlaya

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Ya I know she has interest, she just playing games right now. Some no contact will solve that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ENIGMA16

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I never delete numbers. I have a note on my phone that is titled "Phone Number Graveyard" that is full of girls whose number I "deleted" and no longer talk to. This gives me the opportunity to re-add her number if I re-establish contact but also know who is texting/calling me so that I'm not caught off guard. I have a strict rule that I can't contact anyone on the list, and that I have to add them into my phone first, but only with good reason.
 

Night-hawk

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Ya I rarely delete numbers...if anything I keep girls on for future entertainment should it arise. Who cares. I have only girls on my BBM right now, it's funny watching their statuses and pictures change lol, and at times I still have fun convos with them. You deleting girls is like you telling yourself you lost and aren't worth it. **** that, you never know what will arise...keep the potential in the air. You know what works for forgetting a girl even if she's on your phone...get 5 more girls on your phone.
 
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