"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so I met a gril at a club and exchanged emails

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met her at a club

on the way out

found out she lives around my area

I did a goodbye approach

she had to go , so we exchanged emails
(she brought up the email thing, then asked me for my email address)

and gave me her email

she wrote me

this:

"I would reeeeealy like to talk to you more... but I no longer want to reply on emails anymore because I had a bad experience with weirdo/psycho in the past. Hope you understand!! :p"
..my question is...is it time to exchange numbers?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also write her phone number.
 
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Maxtro said:
hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also right her phone number.
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yeah I wanted to go for the cell phone , but she just said give me your email , and as soon as I was going for the 2nd contact she said hey I go to my gf's are waiting for me
but stay in touch with me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
 
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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
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yeah I should have been more aggressive towards the beginning, but I went to the club with no intentions of picking up girls, I just went to have a drink with a friend that I had not seen in months.

ssry about me quoting your typo my bad :whistle:
 
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