"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so I met a gril at a club and exchanged emails

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met her at a club

on the way out

found out she lives around my area

I did a goodbye approach

she had to go , so we exchanged emails
(she brought up the email thing, then asked me for my email address)

and gave me her email

she wrote me

this:

"I would reeeeealy like to talk to you more... but I no longer want to reply on emails anymore because I had a bad experience with weirdo/psycho in the past. Hope you understand!! :p"
..my question is...is it time to exchange numbers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also write her phone number.
 
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Maxtro said:
hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also right her phone number.
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yeah I wanted to go for the cell phone , but she just said give me your email , and as soon as I was going for the 2nd contact she said hey I go to my gf's are waiting for me
but stay in touch with me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
 
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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
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yeah I should have been more aggressive towards the beginning, but I went to the club with no intentions of picking up girls, I just went to have a drink with a friend that I had not seen in months.

ssry about me quoting your typo my bad :whistle:
 
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