"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so I met a gril at a club and exchanged emails

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met her at a club

on the way out

found out she lives around my area

I did a goodbye approach

she had to go , so we exchanged emails
(she brought up the email thing, then asked me for my email address)

and gave me her email

she wrote me

this:

"I would reeeeealy like to talk to you more... but I no longer want to reply on emails anymore because I had a bad experience with weirdo/psycho in the past. Hope you understand!! :p"
..my question is...is it time to exchange numbers?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also write her phone number.
 
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Maxtro said:
hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also right her phone number.
yeah I wanted to go for the cell phone , but she just said give me your email , and as soon as I was going for the 2nd contact she said hey I go to my gf's are waiting for me
but stay in touch with me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
 
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Maxtro said:
Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
yeah I should have been more aggressive towards the beginning, but I went to the club with no intentions of picking up girls, I just went to have a drink with a friend that I had not seen in months.

ssry about me quoting your typo my bad :whistle:
 
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