"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so I met a gril at a club and exchanged emails

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met her at a club

on the way out

found out she lives around my area

I did a goodbye approach

she had to go , so we exchanged emails
(she brought up the email thing, then asked me for my email address)

and gave me her email

she wrote me

this:

"I would reeeeealy like to talk to you more... but I no longer want to reply on emails anymore because I had a bad experience with weirdo/psycho in the past. Hope you understand!! :p"
..my question is...is it time to exchange numbers?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also write her phone number.
 
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Maxtro said:
hmm doesn't seem too good. Try to get her phone number but it may be too late.

Here is an idea for next time from David D. When you tell a girl to give you her email, as she is writing that down, tell her to also right her phone number.
yeah I wanted to go for the cell phone , but she just said give me your email , and as soon as I was going for the 2nd contact she said hey I go to my gf's are waiting for me
but stay in touch with me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
 
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Maxtro said:
Argh you quoted my typo now I can't edit it :(

Seems like there was not much you could have done.
yeah I should have been more aggressive towards the beginning, but I went to the club with no intentions of picking up girls, I just went to have a drink with a friend that I had not seen in months.

ssry about me quoting your typo my bad :whistle:
 
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