Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

So I actually had an opportunity with a good looking girl last night

bigdave17

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Fair enough. But you don’t need positive experiences just yet (with women that are your type). You just need the experience, even if it is negative for a while.

negative experiences with the women in dateable group are incredibly demoralizing for me

I get discouraged very very quickly. You have to understand I convinced myself for a long time that I would never have a girlfriend. My brain is very quick to give up completely.
 

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you guys have recommended this a million times and I've told you it doesn't help me

I slept with multiple women who are beneath my league a few years ago, it didn't help me at all. It's like my brain puts women into 2 different categories - dateable and not dateable. Getting positive experiences with the not dateable group doesn't help me break through the negative beliefs with the dateable group. I need positive experiences with the dateable group and I'm struggling miserably to get that

I also need to stop putting the p*ssy on pedestal
Why not just go for it with the dateable women then? If you fail you learned something, if you succeed you gained experience
 

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Dave, you need serious professional intervention. Please seek help.
 

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Doable means nothing if they're not dateable

Female attention doesn't help me if its not from someone dateable. I had this chubby indian chick Saturday who tried to approach me 5 times. What does that do for me? Nothing

I need my Greek or Italian or Latina queen
Simping
 

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What are you out there "dating" for bigdave17? Most folks are out there dating for fun and to possibly hookup.
 

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Why not just go for it with the dateable women then? If you fail you learned something, if you succeed you gained experience

I rarely get any easy opportunities with dateable women

I'm not willing to approach when there are a million obstacles in the way
 
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