So I actually had an opportunity with a good looking girl last night

nicksaiz65

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I love super thick, super fit girls :p:p:p - not just the ass but I love thick, beautiful, shapely legs and calves




but you're correct with the rest of what you said. I convinced myself for so many years that women and dating are totally impossible, that I'm fighting myself against all those beliefs now


when I was a high schooler, I was mocked for my lack of dating experience (I was a fat kid) and I internalized that super hard and made myself believe I would never be worthy of having a girlfriend
I’m right with you trying to break these Self Limiting Beliefs dude. Maybe if you practiced with the women you’re less attracted to and then worked your way up to these hotter ones as your Game/Confidence increases?
 

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I’m right with you trying to break these Self Limiting Beliefs dude. Maybe if you practiced with the women you’re less attracted to and then worked your way up to these hotter ones as your Game/Confidence increases?

you guys have recommended this a million times and I've told you it doesn't help me

I slept with multiple women who are beneath my league a few years ago, it didn't help me at all. It's like my brain puts women into 2 different categories - dateable and not dateable. Getting positive experiences with the not dateable group doesn't help me break through the negative beliefs with the dateable group. I need positive experiences with the dateable group and I'm struggling miserably to get that

I also need to stop putting the p*ssy on pedestal
 

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Fair enough. But you don’t need positive experiences just yet (with women that are your type). You just need the experience, even if it is negative for a while.

The positive experience(s) will come later when you get more comfortable around that type of chick AND you meet the right one at the right time.
 

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Fair enough. But you don’t need positive experiences just yet (with women that are your type). You just need the experience, even if it is negative for a while.

negative experiences with the women in dateable group are incredibly demoralizing for me

I get discouraged very very quickly. You have to understand I convinced myself for a long time that I would never have a girlfriend. My brain is very quick to give up completely.
 

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you guys have recommended this a million times and I've told you it doesn't help me

I slept with multiple women who are beneath my league a few years ago, it didn't help me at all. It's like my brain puts women into 2 different categories - dateable and not dateable. Getting positive experiences with the not dateable group doesn't help me break through the negative beliefs with the dateable group. I need positive experiences with the dateable group and I'm struggling miserably to get that

I also need to stop putting the p*ssy on pedestal
Why not just go for it with the dateable women then? If you fail you learned something, if you succeed you gained experience
 

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Doable means nothing if they're not dateable

Female attention doesn't help me if its not from someone dateable. I had this chubby indian chick Saturday who tried to approach me 5 times. What does that do for me? Nothing

I need my Greek or Italian or Latina queen
Simping
 

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Why not just go for it with the dateable women then? If you fail you learned something, if you succeed you gained experience

I rarely get any easy opportunities with dateable women

I'm not willing to approach when there are a million obstacles in the way
 
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