Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You got it manOriginally posted by Socialreject
Dude blow your nose next time you record something ^^
Nah j/k. Nice recording and some good points aswell although i've never really gotten into story telling much and if i do they are mostly works of humorous fiction and less 'under the radar' bragging
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What can I say....Im such a great actor LMAO
Thanks man
I am in field 24 hours a day lol....I do about 15- 20 cold approaches a day field testing new material.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LMAO:crackup:....I noticed this too when i played it back ...are men not allowed to have the flu
Nope...Im all white lol
haha totally off :crackup:
lmao funny ****
I'm not trying to be funny...but get a spelling book
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ROFL!! oh man, give the guy a break. I'm making a couple of calls tonight to set up dates for next week. I'll record them and you'll have the great chance of picking apart my barry white voice later.Originally posted by fender85
Dude, your female voice sounds like Fez on That 70's Show.
I'll buy that... sounds like it could be pretty sexy without the germsOriginally posted by Smooth Player 056
haha hate on my voice all you want.......it has seduced many females
~Smooth
:crackup:Not nearly enough... LOLOriginally posted by guitaronfire411
How much are you getting for your record contract, syncmaster?