"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smooth Player 056's Audio: Attraction

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude blow your nose next time you record something ^^

Nah j/k. Nice recording and some good points aswell although i've never really gotten into story telling much and if i do they are mostly works of humorous fiction and less 'under the radar' bragging :)
 

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Originally posted by Socialreject
Dude blow your nose next time you record something ^^

Nah j/k. Nice recording and some good points aswell although i've never really gotten into story telling much and if i do they are mostly works of humorous fiction and less 'under the radar' bragging :)
You got it man
 

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good stuff...but lol, the girls voice you put on was funny...:crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good shyt man.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
LOL you have a mailing list? Cool man.

How often are you in the field?


JC Jerkson
I am in field 24 hours a day lol....I do about 15- 20 cold approaches a day field testing new material.

Im currently collecting an online folder of all my audio sarges....soon they will be sent to people on my mailing list.

If your interested in signing up, just drop me an email at [email protected]

~Smooth
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Ever heard of rythmic breathing? I do a lot of public speaking & it works well.

- Sync
LMAO:crackup:....I noticed this too when i played it back ...are men not allowed to have the flu


~Smooth
 

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ahahahahahahahaha everybody hatin on his voice

Originally posted by Brak86
O/T but hust by you're voice i can tell you're asian....am i right?
haha totally off :crackup:

Originally posted by Socialreject
Dude blow your nose next time you record something
lmao funny ****

Originally posted by E_ze05
im not trying to be funny...but do u snort coccain?
I'm not trying to be funny...but get a spelling book
 

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Dude, your female voice sounds like Fez on That 70's Show. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by fender85
Dude, your female voice sounds like Fez on That 70's Show. :D
ROFL!! oh man, give the guy a break. I'm making a couple of calls tonight to set up dates for next week. I'll record them and you'll have the great chance of picking apart my barry white voice later.
No staged ****.. the real deal :D
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
haha hate on my voice all you want.......it has seduced many females;)


~Smooth
I'll buy that... sounds like it could be pretty sexy without the germs :p
 
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