"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That_Guy49

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i hung out with a friend and two chicks the other day and the dude told me that when I was in the restroom, my date was exclaiming about how I always smell so good. What does smell(the good kind) do for a woman?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dukester

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smelling good is just a factor of physical attractiveness.
she isnt gonna be attracted if u smell like a farm animal. likewise, she wants to smell something good
there fore if she does, she likes it
 

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I always get told i smell good, almost every day, use a nice cologne/aftershave and apply it liberally but not so you end up smelling like a pharmacy. I also like mixing different ones.

Today a girl then started talking about artificial pheromes and then i got onto natural ones and was sniffing, moving onto licking and kissing her.

Its good, if she comments on it, move forward.
 

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Smell helps her relate to good memories in the long run, as does taste. It brings back the past, giving her the same good feelings they did back when it happened.
 

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i agree with splinter. a cologne may trigger good memories for a girl. it may remind her of something or someone who wore the same thing. i've had ladies tell me i smell like their ex boyfriends. damn. but oh well, all the same, it triggers good memories of the times they shared with their exes and they feel a closer bond with me.. which pretty much makes them vulnerable to my adviances :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I use Axe Phoenix...but I don't seem to smell as strong as some of the other guys.

Where all do you spray your body spray guys?
 

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thats because most guys i know who've had good compliments regarding the way they smell, use underarm spray (AXE is fine, but i prefer Gillette), a hint of cologne, remember if she wants to smell it, she's got to lean in close for a whiff! and if you shave, then dab on a little aftershave. body spray alone is going to get you no where brother!
 
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