"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That_Guy49

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i hung out with a friend and two chicks the other day and the dude told me that when I was in the restroom, my date was exclaiming about how I always smell so good. What does smell(the good kind) do for a woman?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dukester

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smelling good is just a factor of physical attractiveness.
she isnt gonna be attracted if u smell like a farm animal. likewise, she wants to smell something good
there fore if she does, she likes it
 

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I always get told i smell good, almost every day, use a nice cologne/aftershave and apply it liberally but not so you end up smelling like a pharmacy. I also like mixing different ones.

Today a girl then started talking about artificial pheromes and then i got onto natural ones and was sniffing, moving onto licking and kissing her.

Its good, if she comments on it, move forward.
 

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Smell helps her relate to good memories in the long run, as does taste. It brings back the past, giving her the same good feelings they did back when it happened.
 

jakeyboy

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i agree with splinter. a cologne may trigger good memories for a girl. it may remind her of something or someone who wore the same thing. i've had ladies tell me i smell like their ex boyfriends. damn. but oh well, all the same, it triggers good memories of the times they shared with their exes and they feel a closer bond with me.. which pretty much makes them vulnerable to my adviances :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I use Axe Phoenix...but I don't seem to smell as strong as some of the other guys.

Where all do you spray your body spray guys?
 

jakeyboy

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thats because most guys i know who've had good compliments regarding the way they smell, use underarm spray (AXE is fine, but i prefer Gillette), a hint of cologne, remember if she wants to smell it, she's got to lean in close for a whiff! and if you shave, then dab on a little aftershave. body spray alone is going to get you no where brother!
 
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