"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That_Guy49

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i hung out with a friend and two chicks the other day and the dude told me that when I was in the restroom, my date was exclaiming about how I always smell so good. What does smell(the good kind) do for a woman?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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smelling good is just a factor of physical attractiveness.
she isnt gonna be attracted if u smell like a farm animal. likewise, she wants to smell something good
there fore if she does, she likes it
 

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I always get told i smell good, almost every day, use a nice cologne/aftershave and apply it liberally but not so you end up smelling like a pharmacy. I also like mixing different ones.

Today a girl then started talking about artificial pheromes and then i got onto natural ones and was sniffing, moving onto licking and kissing her.

Its good, if she comments on it, move forward.
 

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Smell helps her relate to good memories in the long run, as does taste. It brings back the past, giving her the same good feelings they did back when it happened.
 

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i agree with splinter. a cologne may trigger good memories for a girl. it may remind her of something or someone who wore the same thing. i've had ladies tell me i smell like their ex boyfriends. damn. but oh well, all the same, it triggers good memories of the times they shared with their exes and they feel a closer bond with me.. which pretty much makes them vulnerable to my adviances :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I use Axe Phoenix...but I don't seem to smell as strong as some of the other guys.

Where all do you spray your body spray guys?
 

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thats because most guys i know who've had good compliments regarding the way they smell, use underarm spray (AXE is fine, but i prefer Gillette), a hint of cologne, remember if she wants to smell it, she's got to lean in close for a whiff! and if you shave, then dab on a little aftershave. body spray alone is going to get you no where brother!
 
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