"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Slump Busting

ThinWhiteDuke

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A few years back MLB player Mark Grace did an interview on the Ji Rome radio show and launched into his description of a sexual slump buster. In a nutshell he said the way to bust a slump is to find the fattest, narliest ho in the bar and lay the wood to her.

I'd personally rather remain 'hitless' then to use this approach.

What do you use to bust out?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ricky

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Yes it is better to remain hitless.

You know why? You might get her pregnant.
 

allan976

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Depends on the cause of the slump

"What do you use to bust out?"

---Damm good question. I'm still trying to answer that one. As long as I have the proper energy, I just move on to the next number close or next approach.

What gets really difficult is when you don't want to approach. One thing that could be going on is that the rest of your life is getting so crazy and demanding that you'd be better off dealing with these issues first, strictly for the sake of self preservation. If you're gaming so much that you're slacking off on work for example, you're in trouble. Better get back to work, son.

If work (and family matters and so on) is fine, and you have plenty of energy, time to evaluate your inner state. What are your self limiting beliefs? Some people can work through this on their own, in the form of a journal, or by talking to friends, or by doing a workshop. For others, personal therapy is required or beneficial.

A third possibility is that there is a serious problem with your game, strategy wise. Here, you might be better off recruiting a wing to get a second opinion. Ask for frank, but constructive advice on how you open, how you vibe, how you close, your body language, clothing, everything. A good wing can be invaluable. But a weak wing can bust your sets into oblivion.
 

MaddXMan

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What gets me in a slump from time to time is dry spells with no intimancy, not a lack of numbers or dates. I like being single. My cure for that feeling is a local oriental massage provider. She's a hot thai. Full body massage, slow buildup to an intense mind blowing happy ending. It's not about "dyck in pu$$y" but a sensual experience. The next few days I feel like I can knock down brick buildings. Yeah I pay $120, but it's a hellavua lot better than the above advice, banging a fat skank from a bar. Slump buster - give me a break!!! That would have me feeling depressed as hell!!
 

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Why would Mark Grace have to do that?

He must have had negative game with his money, fame, and as I remember, pretty good looks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ThinWhiteDuke

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A pro baseball player who wasn't easily recognized (Grace was never a huge name in the sport) could slip into a sex slump during the off-season winter months.
 
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