"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Slump Busting

ThinWhiteDuke

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A few years back MLB player Mark Grace did an interview on the Ji Rome radio show and launched into his description of a sexual slump buster. In a nutshell he said the way to bust a slump is to find the fattest, narliest ho in the bar and lay the wood to her.

I'd personally rather remain 'hitless' then to use this approach.

What do you use to bust out?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ricky

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Yes it is better to remain hitless.

You know why? You might get her pregnant.
 

allan976

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Depends on the cause of the slump

"What do you use to bust out?"

---Damm good question. I'm still trying to answer that one. As long as I have the proper energy, I just move on to the next number close or next approach.

What gets really difficult is when you don't want to approach. One thing that could be going on is that the rest of your life is getting so crazy and demanding that you'd be better off dealing with these issues first, strictly for the sake of self preservation. If you're gaming so much that you're slacking off on work for example, you're in trouble. Better get back to work, son.

If work (and family matters and so on) is fine, and you have plenty of energy, time to evaluate your inner state. What are your self limiting beliefs? Some people can work through this on their own, in the form of a journal, or by talking to friends, or by doing a workshop. For others, personal therapy is required or beneficial.

A third possibility is that there is a serious problem with your game, strategy wise. Here, you might be better off recruiting a wing to get a second opinion. Ask for frank, but constructive advice on how you open, how you vibe, how you close, your body language, clothing, everything. A good wing can be invaluable. But a weak wing can bust your sets into oblivion.
 

MaddXMan

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What gets me in a slump from time to time is dry spells with no intimancy, not a lack of numbers or dates. I like being single. My cure for that feeling is a local oriental massage provider. She's a hot thai. Full body massage, slow buildup to an intense mind blowing happy ending. It's not about "dyck in pu$$y" but a sensual experience. The next few days I feel like I can knock down brick buildings. Yeah I pay $120, but it's a hellavua lot better than the above advice, banging a fat skank from a bar. Slump buster - give me a break!!! That would have me feeling depressed as hell!!
 

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Why would Mark Grace have to do that?

He must have had negative game with his money, fame, and as I remember, pretty good looks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ThinWhiteDuke

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A pro baseball player who wasn't easily recognized (Grace was never a huge name in the sport) could slip into a sex slump during the off-season winter months.
 
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