“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Slump Busting

ThinWhiteDuke

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A few years back MLB player Mark Grace did an interview on the Ji Rome radio show and launched into his description of a sexual slump buster. In a nutshell he said the way to bust a slump is to find the fattest, narliest ho in the bar and lay the wood to her.

I'd personally rather remain 'hitless' then to use this approach.

What do you use to bust out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ricky

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Yes it is better to remain hitless.

You know why? You might get her pregnant.
 

allan976

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Depends on the cause of the slump

"What do you use to bust out?"

---Damm good question. I'm still trying to answer that one. As long as I have the proper energy, I just move on to the next number close or next approach.

What gets really difficult is when you don't want to approach. One thing that could be going on is that the rest of your life is getting so crazy and demanding that you'd be better off dealing with these issues first, strictly for the sake of self preservation. If you're gaming so much that you're slacking off on work for example, you're in trouble. Better get back to work, son.

If work (and family matters and so on) is fine, and you have plenty of energy, time to evaluate your inner state. What are your self limiting beliefs? Some people can work through this on their own, in the form of a journal, or by talking to friends, or by doing a workshop. For others, personal therapy is required or beneficial.

A third possibility is that there is a serious problem with your game, strategy wise. Here, you might be better off recruiting a wing to get a second opinion. Ask for frank, but constructive advice on how you open, how you vibe, how you close, your body language, clothing, everything. A good wing can be invaluable. But a weak wing can bust your sets into oblivion.
 

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What gets me in a slump from time to time is dry spells with no intimancy, not a lack of numbers or dates. I like being single. My cure for that feeling is a local oriental massage provider. She's a hot thai. Full body massage, slow buildup to an intense mind blowing happy ending. It's not about "dyck in pu$$y" but a sensual experience. The next few days I feel like I can knock down brick buildings. Yeah I pay $120, but it's a hellavua lot better than the above advice, banging a fat skank from a bar. Slump buster - give me a break!!! That would have me feeling depressed as hell!!
 

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Why would Mark Grace have to do that?

He must have had negative game with his money, fame, and as I remember, pretty good looks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThinWhiteDuke

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A pro baseball player who wasn't easily recognized (Grace was never a huge name in the sport) could slip into a sex slump during the off-season winter months.
 
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