"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sleeping around, around 30 and lies

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DonGorgon said:
Information is power so lying is an essential part of the game if you are playing to win..... Why? - control! .. It's easier to control someone if they dont know the whole story and cant make decisions that are detrimental to your plan.....
now thats an interesting perspective. and she thought i was controlling lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sosilky said:
who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.

Who? The MORON below:

sosilky said:
I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sosilky said:
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
Okay...so, why were you whining then?
 

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sosilky said:
seriously, let it go bud
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
 

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Latinoman said:
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
thanx for the tip
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
right
 

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DonGorgon said:
Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.
 

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BustedKnucks said:
Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon said:
when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear ya
 

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Get her tested. That is the only way to know. And then keep her under lock and key after that. Otherwise you are playing the odds with STD's.
 
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