Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sleeping around, around 30 and lies

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DonGorgon said:
Information is power so lying is an essential part of the game if you are playing to win..... Why? - control! .. It's easier to control someone if they dont know the whole story and cant make decisions that are detrimental to your plan.....
now thats an interesting perspective. and she thought i was controlling lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sosilky said:
who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.

Who? The MORON below:

sosilky said:
I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sosilky said:
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
Okay...so, why were you whining then?
 

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sosilky said:
seriously, let it go bud
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
 

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Latinoman said:
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
thanx for the tip
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon said:
Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
right
 

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DonGorgon said:
Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.
 

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BustedKnucks said:
Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon said:
when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear ya
 

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Get her tested. That is the only way to know. And then keep her under lock and key after that. Otherwise you are playing the odds with STD's.
 
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