"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sleeping around, around 30 and lies
- Thread starter sosilky
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sosilky said:who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.
Who? The MORON below:
sosilky said:I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving alongLatinoman said:Who? The MORON below:
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watcha got? any opinion on the OP?wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Okay...so, why were you whining then?sosilky said:yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
seriously, let it go budLatinoman said:Okay...so, why were you whining then?
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?sosilky said:seriously, let it go bud
thanx for the tipLatinoman said:What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
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Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
rightDonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.DonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
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wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her presentBustedKnucks said:Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
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when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her futuresosilky said:wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear yaDonGorgon said:when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
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