"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sleeping around, around 30 and lies
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sosilky said:who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.
Who? The MORON below:
sosilky said:I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving alongLatinoman said:Who? The MORON below:
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watcha got? any opinion on the OP?wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Okay...so, why were you whining then?sosilky said:yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
seriously, let it go budLatinoman said:Okay...so, why were you whining then?
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?sosilky said:seriously, let it go bud
thanx for the tipLatinoman said:What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
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Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
rightDonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.DonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
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wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her presentBustedKnucks said:Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
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when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her futuresosilky said:wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear yaDonGorgon said:when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
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