Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
sleeping around, around 30 and lies
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sosilky said:who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.
Who? The MORON below:
sosilky said:I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving alongLatinoman said:Who? The MORON below:
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watcha got? any opinion on the OP?wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Okay...so, why were you whining then?sosilky said:yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
seriously, let it go budLatinoman said:Okay...so, why were you whining then?
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?sosilky said:seriously, let it go bud
thanx for the tipLatinoman said:What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
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Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
rightDonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.DonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
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wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her presentBustedKnucks said:Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
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when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her futuresosilky said:wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear yaDonGorgon said:when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
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