"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sleeping around, around 30 and lies
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sosilky said:who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.
Who? The MORON below:
sosilky said:I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?
yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving alongLatinoman said:Who? The MORON below:
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watcha got? any opinion on the OP?wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Okay...so, why were you whining then?sosilky said:yeah i said touch on it but the focus is on the subject at hand...moving along
seriously, let it go budLatinoman said:Okay...so, why were you whining then?
What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?sosilky said:seriously, let it go bud
thanx for the tipLatinoman said:What is with the questions? I noticed you have about 5 or 6 threads. Why don't come with one thread and bulletize all those questions in one?
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Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..wallycleaver said:why don't dj's ever talk about all the std's they have?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
rightDonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
If you ask a person and that person KNOWINGLY denies it...and you get infected...you can probably bring legal charges against that person. Make no mistake about that.DonGorgon said:Very few humans talk about all the STDs they have..... very few cool, sexually active/promiscuous people have no STDs..
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wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her presentBustedKnucks said:Best advice I can give you is never ask your gf about her sexual past.
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when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her futuresosilky said:wasn't talkung bout her past was talking bout her present
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ha right the OP was about more then STDs but i hear yaDonGorgon said:when it comes to STDs.. Her past is her present and her future
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