"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skinny jeans, and man-buns, and the rise of He-b!tches.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I look around and it's become the norm to see millennial males try to become more chick, than the chick he's trying to impress. In the eighties, as I was a burgeoning young tike, I noticed this problem too, but on a much less feminine scale. Guys then teased their hair with cans and cans of ozone-depleting hairspray. But that was the worst of it.

Now, saggy-drawers and jeans too tight at the ankle are the norm. They're cartoon characters at best.

What the fvck happened to masculinity? In my day I had the good fortune of having true men as my heroes and guys whom I wanted to emulate and learn from. Men such as my Dad and my Step-Dad. Both worked with their hands and did honest, hard work. Working on cars and machinery. Mingling sweat with blood and oil and grease. These fvcking pansies today won't even dream of getting their acrylic nails dirty, much less work outside of American Eagle or The Gap.

And what the fvck is the allure of the man-bun? Unless you're a Samurai warrior at the height of the Edo Period in Feudal Japan, you have no business whatsoever with your hair bunched-up as if you're lunging towards battle. There is no honor in a man-bun.

I'm sure to catch the ire of some of the younger guys here, but if you're objective and notice how feminine these he-b!tches look and act, then you can't help but see a very, very dismal future for the masculine archetype to thrive and flourish openly.

You need only look at the two pictures attached to decide which you'd be proud to call friend and want to learn from.
You need to check out some rural areas. One thing I've recently noticed is that this trend of man-hating is largely a 'city' thing. It's still a big problem, no doubt, because more and more people are moving to cities, where all the idiotic crap happens.
 

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I wear skinny jeans and don't see why any1 would have a problem with them.

I have white collar job and generally speaking DGF about doing dirty job.

I recall that guys interested in Japan often sport man-buns. I think man-buns look bad but whatever flies your colours so to say.

Best players internalise their 'emotional'/'feminine' part of character to be alluring to more ladies (think Casanova). It's about being seductive/have style/looks. Mr macho mechanic with greased t-shirt comfortably marries 5/10 and there are guys that treat 5/10 like air (like me). Being manly in basic/outdated ways and being up to date on game aspects and how women interest fluctuates are two different things.

Women settle for stability and predictability but most od them feel tingles for guys with feminine side because it screams high emotional intelligence which adds significant bonus to aquiring assets and is call of evolution in 21st cent. developed countries.
I would imagine if you could mix money with those dirty job guys, you'd have something. If some of those guys would ever wake up and realize you could make a crap ton of money owning a plumbing or mechanic business (assuming you have business sense and/or get a degree), you could have the best of both worlds.

A lot of those alpha job type workers are very beta in nature, as they cannot control their testosterone, etc. and are stupid/brute.
 

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Judgments are always about the person doing the judging; they are never about the person being judged.

I'm sure if you had the guts to show yourself on this site others might not approve of the way you look or dress either. But I've concluded that you'll likely never show who you are, because angry, insecure guys hide behind the anonymity of the Internet. That is what they do best.
I guess you didn't realize that Karma has a picture of himself in his profile, and regularly will tell you where he lives.

YOU are the one doing the judging here, and inaccurately, I might add.
 

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well cross dressing is a thing I guess....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strange. I was at the grocery store last night getting some veggies and fruit. There was this hot young blond with a dude with skin tight skinny jeans and a man bun. Wow. These dudes would had just been beat down because they were flamers a few years ago. She was all over him like white on rice. Unreal.
 

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Strange. I was at the grocery store last night getting some veggies and fruit. There was this hot young blond with a dude with skin tight skinny jeans and a man bun. Wow. These dudes would had just been beat down because they were flamers a few years ago. She was all over him like white on rice. Unreal.
Yeah, that's how it goes. "Fashion" trends says it's "good" to dress that way, so stupid bytches with no mind of their own adopt that idea and think the guy looks hot, lol.

Bottom line: If society and fashion norms said that guys should dress in skirts and high heels, many women would undoubtedly find guys in skirts and high heels attractive....

Sometimes I wish I was as stupid and dull as that. Ignorance is bliss.... When you have a mind of your own, you have a harder time "fitting in" and just make things unnecessarily difficult for yourself... It often seems people who act like amenable sheep and follow the herd, are much happier. Fvcking Neanderthals...
 
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Yeah, that's how it goes. "Fashion" trends says it's "good" to dress that way, so stupid bytches with no mind of their own adopt that idea and think the guy looks hot, lol.

Bottom line: If society and fashion norms said that guys should dress in skirts and high heels, many women would undoubtedly find guys in skirts and high heels attractive....

Sometimes I wish I was as stupid and dull as that. Ignorance is bliss.... When you have a mind of your own, you have a harder time "fitting in" and just make things unnecessarily difficult for yourself... It often seems people who act like amenable sheep and follow the herd, are much happier. Fvcking Neanderthals...
It’s the same reason why people say shyt music they hear on the radio today is great. It’s all fed to us from the corporate machine, i.e. what’s hot, what’s cool, etc. if you think for yourself and form your own opinions, you’re cast as a freak.
 

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Judgments are always about the person doing the judging; they are never about the person being judged.

I'm sure if you had the guts to show yourself on this site others might not approve of the way you look or dress either. But I've concluded that you'll likely never show who you are, because angry, insecure guys hide behind the anonymity of the Internet. That is what they do best.
Obviously you and the You'reapeein' share the same plight. He sucks d!cks, but proclaims he's "all man". If you're going to write something so blatantly silly, you're going to be seen, and remembered, as an idiot.

I'm one of the very few who have the sac to post myself publicly you fvcking fool. You show some skank t!ts and think you're too cool for school. Let the men speak while you two jerk each other a soda.
 

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There's a disproportionately amount of intellectuals posting here.

You guys must have picked up and learned manliness (data gathering and reseaching) to the point of being obsessed, hence the bitching.

Doesn't work that way boys...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's a disproportionately amount of intellectuals posting here.

You guys must have picked up and learned manliness (data gathering and reseaching) to the point of being obsessed, hence the bitching.

Doesn't work that way boys...
Ive often thought this tbh. A lot of people here learned red pill and adopted a personality that is not their own. Congruence is key to success. A man that thinks one way and acts another will be found out soon enough...
 

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Generation Gaps, in my opinion, are very good for society. I do not like to hear a young person brag that his parents turned him on to Led Zeppelin. My parents HATED the music I listened to, which made the music all that much better.
Being an openly homo-erotic slag to Nickelback's cat-fvcking "sound" is rebellion enough for the rest of your life.

The younger generations, particularly, should ALWAYS question "the normal order of things." When the older generation has no complaints, I'll be concerned.
Pure, unabashed, nonsense. Do you understand why a standard is held in high-regard? Because it's been tested, re-tested, then done again and again until any doubt is wiped away. The younger generation being overtly feminine isn't anything to glorify? Just like the sissy-Mary's in jolly ol' England when they curtsied around in dresses and wore tights. The Blacksmith's and The Knights; do you think they looked at them with the same respect as they did each other? Or did they hike up their skirts a little more and ram a Morning Star straight up the poop-chute until they choked on it?

I had long hair back in the early-to-mid 90s. I was exiting the shower at a gym and as 2 black dudes passed me one said, "Dam I didn't know they let women in mens' lockers." I said, "Yeah, Bro, we've ALL come a long way."
You got the double-barrel blast of BBC. Ah, to be so progressive...
 

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I'm only 5'9" 197lbs, broad shouldered thou, I'm finding being too masculine scares off todays very insecure women, they prefer the lady like men.
False. I wear skinny jeans and I have man bun. I still can't fclose many.
 

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If tranny looks like HB10, I'd bang her. You can call me gay, I don't care lol. You might be 10/10 straight, I can be 9/10 straight. You may say "straight is a binary thing" I can say "Kinsey research mate" and we can go like that forever.
Who can take you seriously after an admittance like this! You gargle with MANoynnaise (and probably swallow that too), your breath smells suspiciously like a sweaty sac, but you consider yourself the epitome of masculinity?

Say what you want about me you farm fairy, but you've just come-out of the darkest corner of any closet I've ever witnessed.

Fvckin' fruit.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Faggot on the rise, yeah sure girl love those providers / supply /attention they provide, and they can cucks them too.. Who doesn't love them nowdays..
 

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Ive often thought this tbh. A lot of people here learned red pill and adopted a personality that is not their own. Congruence is key to success. A man that thinks one way and acts another will be found out soon enough...
Then u hv a mind that's worth picking.

I'll feature you in one of my threads.
 

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Ive often thought this tbh. A lot of people here learned red pill and adopted a personality that is not their own. Congruence is key to success. A man that thinks one way and acts another will be found out soon enough...
If you did not have to learn red pill, there would be no reason for you to come to this site.
 

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Faggot on the rise, yeah sure girl love those providers / supply /attention they provide, and they can cucks them too.. Who doesn't love them nowdays..
They don't call them useful idiots for nothing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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