“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Double

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are these parallel squats or how low to do you go?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good job with the squats! But I don't get your calf raises, your seated raises should be alot stronger than your standing. :confused:
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Good job with the squats! But I don't get your calf raises, your seated raises should be alot stronger than your standing. :confused:
i can actually do 8 * 110kg with the standing calf raises

seated: can't push the weight up if it's above 50kg (i'm using the machine that has a rest above your quads and you push it up using your calves)
 

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Back and Traps
Weight: 69kg

Deads
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60kg * 6
100kg * 4
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110kg * 4
120kg * 2 NEW RECORD
125kg * 2 NEW RECORD
130kg * 1 NEW RECORD
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Wide grip chin ups
8reps
5reps

CG lat pulldowns
71kg * 8
71kg * 6

Bent over bb rows
55kg * 6

shrugs
90kg * 6
90kg * 6
 

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gratz on the deads records man! i really need to catch up with you watch me when im done with cutting dude :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chest and Abs
Weight: 69kg

DB Incline Bench
30kg * 5 NEW RECORD
30kg * 4
26kg * 6

BB Flat Bench
65kg * 5 NEW RECORD
65kg * 6 NEW RECORD
65kg * 6

DB Decline Bench
22kg * 6
22kg * 6

DB Flat Bench Flies
12kg * 10
12kg * 10

Cable Leg Raises
32kg * 15
32kg * 15

Ab crunch machine
57kg * 10
57kg * 10

Decline Twisting Situps
10kg * 10
 

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shoulders, biceps and triceps
Had to fit everything in today cuz i've got an exam tomorrow ffs
weight: 69kg

military press
47.5kg * 3 NEW RECORD!! broke the previous record by miles!
45kg * 3
42.5kg * 6

db shoulder press
26kg - couldn't get it up - could have if it was before the military presses

22kg * 5
22kg * 4
20kg * 6

db lateral raises
9kg * 7
9kg * 6

barbell curls
30kg * 6
35kg * 5 NEW RECORD (first time lifting these in ages)
35kg * 5

DB hammer curls
22kg * 6
22kg * 6
20kg * 6

cable overhead tricep extensions
59kg * 4 NEW RECORD
55kg * 6
55kg * 5
55kg * 4

db one arm overhead extensions
10kg * 6
 

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Yeah, congrats! It looks like the bulking is going well =D
 

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yeh, cheers guys. only thing is i've injured my shoulder again after that workout; good job i'm off for the weekend
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Legs
Weight: 69.5kg

Squats
90kg * 6
90kg * 6
95kg * 6
95kg * 6
97.5kg * 6 NEW RECORD

Prone leg curls
69kg * 5 NEW RECORD
69kg * 4

Stiff Leg deads
60kg * 8

Seated calve raises
45kg * 8
45kg * 9
47.5kg * 8
52.5kg * 7
52.5kg * 8 NEW RECORD

Standing calve raises
90kg * 10
 

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good work gav looks like your doing great! your a bit stronger than me so ive got someone to chase.. theres nothing like a bit of competition to push you harder :p
 

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yeah, squats are comming up man, good job.

But I think you can go heavier on the SLDL gav, there seem to be alot of weight imbalance between squat and SLDL.
 

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Back
Weight: 69.5kg

Deads
60kg * 6
90kg * 6
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115kg * 4
125kg * 3 NEW RECORD
132.5kg * 1 NEW MAX RECORD
137.5kg * 1 NEW MAX RECORD (dropped the weight on the first attempt, 5 seconds later, picked it off the ground for a full deadlift)

Wide grip chin ups
7reps
5reps

CG Machine Pulldowns
73.5kg * 6 NEW RECORD
75.5kg * 6 NEW RECORD

BO BB rows
50kg * 6

Shrugs
90kg * 6

This would have been a back and traps day, but whenever i do heavy shrugs, my left shoulder gets fvcked up, in fact, it was fvcked at the start of the workout anyways

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Lifeforce, arite man, my SLDLs hurt my knee joints - i could do 70kg * 6, like i used to, but i use this set just to stretch the muscles, not to build muscle as such

Mid_au, hows it goin bud, you just started up yeh? your lifts are improvin pretty fast the now btw, whats your weight? you bulkin up yeh? i'm just tryin to keep my bf% as low as possible while puttin on muscle, which means my weight won't go up that fast. i could overload on the carbs pretty easily but i'd rather have a sixpack than a gut
 

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again a deadlift record man your rushing ahead! i dont do shrugs but i have shoulder problems too, i read some stuff about the shoulder and the problem can be that the rotator muscle is too weak because it doesnt get trained with ordinary exericises: http://exrx.net/Muscles/Supraspinatus.html
i will include exericises for this muscle at the end of my workouts, lets see if it gets better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Double
again a deadlift record man your rushing ahead! i dont do shrugs but i have shoulder problems too, i read some stuff about the shoulder and the problem can be that the rotator muscle is too weak because it doesnt get trained with ordinary exericises: http://exrx.net/Muscles/Supraspinatus.html
i will include exericises for this muscle at the end of my workouts, lets see if it gets better.
klkl, cheers double. i used to do front lateral raises actually. good excuse to go back to them
 

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Originally posted by gav
Mid_au, hows it goin bud, you just started up yeh? your lifts are improvin pretty fast the now btw, whats your weight? you bulkin up yeh? [/B]
yeah gav i started not too long ago.. ive gained a couple of kilos so far (69-72kg). my strength seems to be increasing but my im not gaining as much weight as i thought i would!? i thought if you get stronger your muscles HAVE to grow more?

my lifts are doing ok but i have weak legs, its somehting i really need to work on. look out for a post in my journal tomorrow. (its chest, shoulders, triceps day)

cheers :cool:
 

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getting stronger usually means having bigger muscles and a improved muscle coordination because of an improvement in your CNS(central nervous system). and they dont improve in the same speed. for example i had some weeks where i didnt get much stronger but put on plenty of mass. but before these weeks i made good strength improvements but not so much muscle mass improvements. espicially in the beginning your CNS isnt used to lifting weights so it will make some major improvemnts.
 

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Originally posted by mid_au
yeah gav i started not too long ago.. ive gained a couple of kilos so far (69-72kg). my strength seems to be increasing but my im not gaining as much weight as i thought i would!?
those are big gains mate, even for beginner ones. once your body adapts to the weightlifting and the heavy eating, your gains should slow down (but that's not a certainty; look at double and lifeforce)

the highest i ever got was 73kg during a creatine bulk at the start of the year, but a lot of cardio brought me back down (to like 67kg not too long ago)
 

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chest + abs
weight: 69.5kg

DB Incline bench
18kg * 6
22kg * 6
30kg - couldn't get it up, shoulder's still fvcked from last week
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28kg * 6
28kg * 5
28kg * 6

BB Flat Bench
67.5kg * 3 NEW RECORD
65kg * 4
65kg * 5

BB Decline Bench
60kg * 4 NEW RECORD
60kg * 4

DB Flies
10kg * 12
12kg * 8

Cable Leg Raises
32kg * 15
32kg * 15

Ab Crunch Machine
57kg * 10
57kg * 10

Incline Side Situps
10kg * 15
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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