"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
today was a leg workout, weight 71.5kg
Squats
warmup
0kg * 10
15kg * 10
30kg * 8
40kg * 6
55kg * 3
65kg * 1
75kg * 8
80kg * 8
85kg * 8
Leg press machine
230kg * 8 - i was about to faint
190kg * 8
190kg * 8
leg curl
98kg * 6
98kg * 6 (the machine was digging into my shins)
horizontal leg curl
86kg * 6
86kg * 5
i feel really drained after that and i've got a headache too, but **** it cuz most folk don't escape from their comfortable little lives.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
hehOriginally posted by Lifeforce
"About 36" around... they look rather small in the mirror, but I compared them to a nearby oak and we had the same lenght around." well he almost told me this before
i did a 111kg * 8 rep leg curl last week (end of page3). this week i was takin it easy
Deadlifts
warmup
20kg * 10
35kg * 8
50kg * 4
70kg * 4
90kg * 1
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90kg * 5
95kg * 5
100kg * 4 (weak forearms)
Pullups
front grip
6reps
5reps
reverse grip
7reps
4reps
Barbell Curl (ez bar - don't know how much these weigh - i assumed 10kg)
30kg * 7
30kg * 6
30kg * 5
Seated rows
72.5kg * 8
79kg * 8
lat pulldowns (wide grip)
52kg * 7
52kg * 5
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
weight: 72kg
chest and triceps
bb bench press
warmup
20kg * 10
40kg * 4
50kg * 2
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60kg * 5
60kg * 5
60kg * 4
Incline db bench
20kg * 7
20kg * 6
Decline bb bench
50kg * 8
55kg * 5
55kg * 5
DB flies
14kg * 6
14kg * 6
Close grip bench
40kg * 4 (arms are fvcked at this point)
Tri extensions
16kg * 8
16kg * 6
Cable Pushdowns
46kg * 8
59kg * 8
73kg * 8
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Thanks Ben,
back biceps
deads
60KG - 15 reps
80KG - 10 reps
95KG - 4 reps
120KG - 2 reps
125kg 1 rep<<<<never knew I could go that heavy
dumbell curls
20k 7 reps standard (alternate arms)
20k 6 hammer (both arms together)
20k 4 concentration curls
pull ups
8
6
6
Ben do me a massive favour and write me out a deadlift routine for next week, and a bench routine. I 1 rep max on 100kg, but I had a spotter, I will be training alone.
3-4 weeks as well I hope I can get squating easily at 90-100kg. I need to get that squat stronger than my 100kg bench!"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.