mrgoodstuff
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Shell lie . Check the last three months of email and text activity. You might find she doing nothing and discouraging guys trying to hit on her .
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Situation with girlfriend
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Roober
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I think this likely means... She cares about you and doesn't feel like you feel the same. She probably also thinks your out fvcking around because of your aloof attitude. This is merely a cry for attention.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
lizardking82
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I second this. No need to rely on anything since I repeat: there is nowhere near enough information here to make a judgement like "she cheated".
OP, do not try to force anything out of her. Go on and enjoy the time with her. Report back in a couple of weeks.
lizardking82
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I would say I have my doubts, but you cannot point towards that with certainty. I lean more towards a temper tantrum than cheating, although both options are open wide right now.
I say he resort to the famous quote "When in doubt, do nothing". The situation is going to unfold all by itself.