mrgoodstuff
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Shell lie . Check the last three months of email and text activity. You might find she doing nothing and discouraging guys trying to hit on her .
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Situation with girlfriend
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- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Roober
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I think this likely means... She cares about you and doesn't feel like you feel the same. She probably also thinks your out fvcking around because of your aloof attitude. This is merely a cry for attention.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
lizardking82
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I second this. No need to rely on anything since I repeat: there is nowhere near enough information here to make a judgement like "she cheated".
OP, do not try to force anything out of her. Go on and enjoy the time with her. Report back in a couple of weeks.
lizardking82
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I would say I have my doubts, but you cannot point towards that with certainty. I lean more towards a temper tantrum than cheating, although both options are open wide right now.
I say he resort to the famous quote "When in doubt, do nothing". The situation is going to unfold all by itself.