mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Shell lie . Check the last three months of email and text activity. You might find she doing nothing and discouraging guys trying to hit on her .
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Situation with girlfriend
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- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Roober
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I think this likely means... She cares about you and doesn't feel like you feel the same. She probably also thinks your out fvcking around because of your aloof attitude. This is merely a cry for attention.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
Cheating was certainly possible as 6 weeks is a long time to be away so early in a relationship. I wouldn't even think about that until you have confirmation though. There is a ton of speculation in the responses here based on nothing really tangible, but completely ignore the context of how shes feeling.
Who cares if she cheated? It will come to fruition eventually, but assuming the worst without anything but a bunch of random internet folks opinions is just silly. You were away 6 weeks and I'm sure you had some fun yourself. If not, why?
Dont snoop
Dont keep bringing up this nonsense
Your still getting sex. If a woman starts denying our needs, then we start denying what she wants, our most valuable gift... our time.
lizardking82
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I second this. No need to rely on anything since I repeat: there is nowhere near enough information here to make a judgement like "she cheated".
OP, do not try to force anything out of her. Go on and enjoy the time with her. Report back in a couple of weeks.
lizardking82
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I would say I have my doubts, but you cannot point towards that with certainty. I lean more towards a temper tantrum than cheating, although both options are open wide right now.
I say he resort to the famous quote "When in doubt, do nothing". The situation is going to unfold all by itself.