Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wow! I registered simply to tell you that this is the most amazing sex advice ever....and I am a 28 year-old female.

Guys, print this out and memorize it!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This seems to have been forgotten about, but its golden - all new members - read this
 

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{{{{ -^ Golden! ^- }}}}

BUMP!
 

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Good Job

Sir_Chancealot - That bible rocked.. thanks dude
 

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Originally posted by Sir_Chancealot
For example, use your Tie to tie her hands behind her back.
I'm very new to the **** community, but even I can tell you that this is a very bad idea. Silk is a very bad material to tie people up with, because it has a tendency to slide along itself, and as a result, tighten. This results in knots that are very hard to undo without pulling out scissors, as well as the loops tightening arould whatever limbs you tied up, resulting in pinched nerves and cut off blood flow.

I would have expected better from a guide entitled "Advanced sexual techniques.;)

And I have to speculate as to whether you've had a tendency to pick up closeted submissives.;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wtf is this sh!t?!

Originally posted by nick012000
I'm very new to the **** community, but even I can tell you that this is a very bad idea. Silk is a very bad material to tie people up with, because it has a tendency to slide along itself, and as a result, tighten. This results in knots that are very hard to undo without pulling out scissors, as well as the loops tightening arould whatever limbs you tied up, resulting in pinched nerves and cut off blood flow.

I would have expected better from a guide entitled "Advanced sexual techniques.;)

And I have to speculate as to whether you've had a tendency to pick up closeted submissives.;)
I neva knew all ties were made of silk:rolleyes: *sigh* ... and secondly, what the f*ck you doing paying attention to the small details that made no difference with your game in regards to women? A tie was just used as an example, now if you have a problem with this site, then kindly, F*CKOFF!! Otherwise, if u wanna stay, then hopefully by the time u are done with this site you wont be so full of sh!t!


Laterz...
 

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I just wanted to point out something as potentially dangerous, to prevent any of the guys here from accidentally injuring their ladies.:D
 

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This post reminded me of this one about the power of using your nose:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16529

Totally awe insiring post Sir_Chancealot.....
It's a keeper......hats off...
There were a few things that I have done in there, but a LOT was learned..... :-D

What I got the most out of in this post (and reading validations from the women who posted), is that this advice can be life altering. What do you think a girl is going to tell her friends about you afterwards? Even if she never lets you go, being the best she's ever had is bound to leak out to her friends sooner or later........
 

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nice... and...

Avon: While I think that your post is a really good one, you need to also add the point that not ALL chicks will like this. With some chicks, they might get freaked out by it and before you know it you'll be in your bed and she'll be wheel’ spinning out of your drive way. I would only recommend doing that with/to a chick once you and her have already been having sex for a while and known each other for a while... With rape being such a big problem, if you have not built up enough trust with her, she might get too freaked out by this.

Otherwise, a good post, and can simply be translated as "wild sex" or "rough sex";)


Laterz...
 

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Bump. This site is awsome!!! :woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow You should come write some of that stuff on my blog!!! this is awesome!!!!
 

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I can't overestimate the importance of this post. I have used techniques described here since the very first time I've lost my virginity, and the responses had been great.

Read, read and read.

Chance, I am buying drinks next time we go out.
 

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i think sir chance olots article is making sex overly complicated.

here's my alternative advice:

"just do it!"

there ya go, now i charge ya 5,000 dolla.
 

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rocco said:
i think sir chance olots article is making sex overly complicated.

here's my alternative advice:

"just do it!"

there ya go, now i charge ya 5,000 dolla.
This, in my opinion, is the single most important thread on SS. Ignore it at your peril.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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after learning all these info and if you cant satisfy a women for some reason......... then there is something wrong with you like seriously go see a therapist or something hehe^^
 

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don´t know why this is not in the bible... if this is not bible stuff, then what is?
 

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I agree that some of the stuff mentioned can only happen in a very secure LTR.

I gotta say. This is an awesome guide!! Every man and woman should read this.
 

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Bump.

I'll be the first one to admit that lot of this stuff can be used with a non-exclusive plate and ONS. You don't need to be in a LTR to use this stuff because chances are most women you hook up with will find you very exciting and dominating.

Don't ever apologize for your sexual desires. It doesn't matter what the situation is (LTR, ONS, etc.). Women will find you challenging, exciting, and attractive.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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