Simple truths

[mzilla2]

I find I have to remind myself of these lately, gotta stick with the basics:

Women who are interested in you will make themselves available to you.

Attraction is not negotiated, learned or conditioned.

Any to add?

 

[jophil28]

I find I have to remind myself of these lately, gotta stick with the basics:

Women who are interested in you will make themselves available to you.

Attraction is not negotiated, learned or conditioned.

Any to add?

Women who are NOt good for you will tell you exactly that thru their actions.

Respect is just as important as sex.

Never be less that you are to get sex.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Behavior not words. Never assume she means what she says - always base your assessment on her actions.

Women's default is for covert communication. Men's default is overt communication. Master the art of covert communication and use it to your advantage.

The time and effort you spend dating and developing a new relationship will ALWAYS be better spent than trying to re-start or get back with an old one.

Rejection is better than regret.

We only chase what runs from us.

Spin more plates.

 

[STR8UP]

1) As long as a woman who is attracted to you looks at you and sees a MAN, she will remain attracted to you. As soon as she sees you as anything less, that attraction will be GONE. FOREVER.

2) When you aren't absolutely sure of what to do- WALK AWAY.

3) You can know everything there is to know about a woman, but at the end of the day don't be surprised if she surprises you somehow.

4) Sometimes the AFC gets the girl. Chances are she'll be back as long as you follow rule #1.

[Edit^- Not that you will necessarily WANT her back, but she will still want you]

What else....hmmmm....

 

[Mr.Positive]

Great stuff... ^ ^

1) Never sacrifice your values and your dignity for a woman, or for anyone for that matter.

2) Women will come and go through your life, enjoy them, and appreciate the time you spend with them....but know when to walk away.

3) Women are a nice addition to a man's life, but not the purpose of a man's life.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

ANYTHING that you can't say NO to, is your MASTER. And YOU are it's SLAVE.

 

[Bible_Belt]

See a doctor, and get rid of it.

 

[CanuckinSK]

1) As long as a woman who is attracted to you looks at you and sees a MAN, she will remain attracted to you. As soon as she sees you as anything less, that attraction will be GONE. FOREVER.

Is that ever true. Some years ago, I applied for a job where the boss was a nice petite brunette, HB 7.5-8. I was all dressed up and displayed my best 'smooth and confident' facade. I knew she was really attracted to me, at first. i.e. stumbled over her words, flustered, acted like a 39ish school girl.

Ended up getting the job, and within a few days, my true insecure self came out. Her attraction for me COMPLETELY disappeared. She was still polite and friendly, but it was like I was now just 'one of the girls' type of friendly.

 

[jonwon]

Women, enjoy sex.

Women go out to be approached.

Women actively pursue men, but in covert ways

Women are very highly sexed, even more so then men

Women encourage interaction with desirable men

Women who have higher interest make the interaction easier

There is no need for ‘high game’ with a women who has a high initial interest in you, she will ‘game’ you

A phone number means NOTHING, you need her out on a date, or seal the deal on the first night

Sealing the deal means getting the chick ‘invested’ either through sex, conversation, attraction, novelty or entertainment

If your not fuc*ing her, you’re her Girl friend

If she does not sleep with you the first night, it does not mean she does not do that, it means she does not do that with ‘you’

Ego can be counter-productive in the meeting women game
Rejection hurts, if you let your ego in
Pride and importance can stop you from getting women
Impressing the world around you can stop you from getting women
Remove EGO and you will get a higher rate of success, do it for you, not for xyandz. (if you find the fat chick attractive, fuc* the fact chick, no one really truly cares).

Never allow a women to be the most important thing in your life, this is matrix speak, the most important is YOU

Don’t compromise your self respect for puss*, its simply a wet hole when all is said and done, its not worth your soul

Choose a women with a higher interest in you then you have in her, your life will be peace-ful for it

Learn how to keep her interest at peak, your life will be peace-full for it

Don’t make the mistake of thinking women operate on the same frequency as men

Women are on average emotional, men are logic

Don’t argue logic with emotion, it’s like mixing milk with beer

Oh and read the hurricane one again, that was funny.

Always enjoy it, if it starts turning into a chore, your doing something wrong.

Men has a standard have one variable for attraction: Looks.

Women have Many.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Men communicate information, women communicate feelings.

All women have the potential to be sluts, you just have to be the right Man in the right circumstance to bring it out in them. The hot coed ƒucking the young buck she met only a half an hour earlier in the foam cannon party on spring break in Cancun is the same sweet girl who'll tell you she's just not comfortable enough to have sex with you after spooning with her for 4 hours.

Women become more sexually available when they are at the peak of their menstrual cycle (usually about week 2 after their period). If you can learn a woman's schedule you'll know when she's ready to go.

If your GF gives good head, she had to learn it from someone. Accept that in all likelihood you aren't a woman's first sexual experience, and you probably wont be her last.

You cannot negotiate desire. All the flowers, love songs, poetry and gifts you can muster pale in comparison to raw, spontaneous, chemical-driven desire.

LDRs only work out in romantic comedies, not the real world. An LDR is like having an invisible friend; they're always there, and they're never there.

Always protect, and develop more options. Power isn't control over other people, power is the degree to which you have control over what you will do with your own life.

Women would rather share a successful Man than be saddled with a faithful loser.

Kill your inner AFC. All the PUA skills in the book will only precipitate your own disaster that much quicker if you never make the mental transition to Manhood first.

Women should only ever be a compliment to a Man's life - never the focus of it.

 

[edger]

Women are very highly sexed, even more so then men

True to the core. And she will always play it like she only has it once every 6 months to a year. 3 words to that: Bull - F*ckin' - Sh*t.

Providing a woman is attractive, she will ALWAYS, ALWAYS be sexually active with someone.

 

[Rudra]

Women actively pursue men, but in covert ways

That is so damn true...

Always remember that the VERY first choice very likely was hers. You were IN our OUT already before you noticed the chick, in all probability. After 5 min she knew if she would ever f0ck you or not.
Always remember that being all emotional and instable and without a plan is just her big disguise to get away with all the shyt she is pulling.
Always remember that she exactly at any given moment knows why she is together with a guy and what her conditions are and when she will take the parachute.
At times recall that is is HER choice in the end. So even the greatest PUA is just a walking dildo in a way. Beauty is an awful power. Very un DJ truth, but a truth anyway.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Women are very highly sexed, even more so then men

Sorry, not to thread-jack but,..I wont argue that women are more sexual than they'll ever admit, that's just part of their covert communication methodology; but it is a biological impossibility that women are more sexual than men. Men possess 17 times the amount of testosterone women do at any given time - so lets stop kidding ourselves. Catch a woman at the peak of her menstrual cycle and she's primed and ready to go; catch her at the bottom of the bell curve for that month and she'd rather curl up on the couch and watch Grey's Anatomy. Men are ready to go at a moments notice, that's just how we work.

 

[mzilla2]

Women need a reason to have sex, men simply need a place.

Scarcity creates value.

Criticism and ridicule often arise out of envy.

Ones actions belie ones true intentions.

 

[logic1]

You cannot negotiate desire. All the flowers, love songs, poetry and gifts you can muster pale in comparison to raw, spontaneous, chemical-driven desire.

Oh how true. This is one thing I have trouble conveying to some of my male buddies. Some of the things they do in this regard makes me cringe. They have trouble grasping this.

 

[jonwon]

Sorry, not to thread-jack but,..I wont argue that women are more sexual than they'll ever admit, that's just part of their covert communication methodology; but it is a biological impossibility that women are more sexual than men. Men possess 17 times the amount of testosterone women do at any given time - so lets stop kidding ourselves. Catch a woman at the peak of her menstrual cycle and she's primed and ready to go; catch her at the bottom of the bell curve for that month and she'd rather curl up on the couch and watch Grey's Anatomy. Men are ready to go at a moments notice, that's just how we work.

Agreed, but still its good re-framing and better then the alternative most guys seem to have of:

Women are doing men a favour.

Dam i almost feel like slapping the guy when they come out with that stuff.

But in way it is still true, just not all the time.

But still i agree with the greys anatomy part, but i have to interject another myth that i see alot of men develop.

That women are not interested in sex.

You see what concerns me is some may read that and think, well i can only get women at certain times of the month.

Nope its just at that time, shes more receptive, they still enjoy sex, the same or more so then we do (multipule orgasams) its just the covert speak so to say, makes out again:

There doing men a favour.

So even if its still no peak, the things where women LOVE sex still rings true.
But the difference is, normally women need a connection, where has men simply need a place, in most cases.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=91924

 

[Mr.Positive]

Sorry, not to thread-jack but,..I wont argue that women are more sexual than they'll ever admit, that's just part of their covert communication methodology; but it is a biological impossibility that women are more sexual than men. Men possess 17 times the amount of testosterone women do at any given time - so lets stop kidding ourselves. Catch a woman at the peak of her menstrual cycle and she's primed and ready to go; catch her at the bottom of the bell curve for that month and she'd rather curl up on the couch and watch Grey's Anatomy. Men are ready to go at a moments notice, that's just how we work.

I actually think women enjoy sex more than men do though.

Women are the one's with the ****oris, which is 1000 times more sensitive than we'll ever know. Also, it's an organ that has only one purpose, sexual pleasure.

Not to mention, women can have muliple orgasms much more easily than men, and when they have these orgasms, they lose virtually all control of themselves, mentally and physically, and might as well not even be on the same planet at that time...just gone, in some different pleasure dimension.

I wish I could experience that. Sex, for men, is mostly about release, releasing sexual tension that builds up.

I've had great sex, but nothing so great that rivals what women get to experience though..

EDIT: Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread. Simple truth: Women enjoy sex way more than men do.

 

[joekerr31]

I actually think women enjoy sex more than men do though.

I wish I could experience that. Sex, for men, is mostly about release, releasing sexual tension that builds up.

actually i'm going to throw out a different view on this (although i could easily be wrong in what im about to say).

the reason, i believe, men don't have the mind blowing orgasms that women do is three fold...

1) we are blowing our loads once a day. try not blowing a load for a week and then having sex - you'll get a pretty similar experience that a woman has.

2) most women, when they are single, do not masturbate anywhere near as much as men. take this behavior and compound it over decades and what you have is the female body being sexually understimulated and the male body being sexual overstimulated. then when sex occurs the female body is simply more sensitive to the sexual stimulation than the mans is.

3) further supporting the first two points, you'll notice that after pounding your woman say 100 times, her mind blowing orgasms do diminish. she becomes more like a male. instead of a 5 minute long orgasm with her whole body shaking, its more like a 30 second orgasm - scratching the itch if you will.

4) odds are initially when a woman is having sex with you she has wrapped up all kinds of other emotions with the act. shes thinking about how you might be the one, how you might get married some day, how much you must love her, how you love her body (which normal she thinks is ugly, but now doesnt), etc. - because women tie 'mood' in with sex, the experience is more powerful. where as for guys, they can screw when they are angry, depressed, happy - it doesn't matter.

to understand the impact of that. its kind of like watching your favourite NFL team win the super bowl, winning a 100k in the lottery and screwing your woman all at once.

lastly, i dont think women enjoy sex more than men to be honest. its pretty clear to me that most men want sex anytime anywhere. they are much 'hornier' than women.

moreover, while women masturbate, they don't do so anywhere near as much as men do.

if they loved sex as much as men they would be seeking it as much as men.

now as for the difference in orgasms. to be honest, i bet you'd find that the release orgasm feels better. think about it, for men every moment of sex is leading up to orgasm. for women sex is more like an activity - one in which if the guy they are with is good in the sac will end in an orgasm (but often times may not).

moreover, having a sensitive system (ie. cl*t) would be damn annoying. imagine if you had to rub just the head of your d*ck 1000 times to orgasm - that would SUCK. its like a goddamn genie in the bottle.

no thanks. i think we got the better deal. we get to just pound away and blow our loads - WAY simplier. both for masturbating and sex.

 

[lookyoung]

All women have the potential to be sluts, you just have to be the right Man in the right circumstance to bring it out in them. The hot coed ƒucking the young buck she met only a half an hour earlier in the foam cannon party on spring break in Cancun is the same sweet girl who'll tell you she's just not comfortable enough to have sex with you after spooning with her for 4 hour

I must say this is a great post. This post belongs in the DJ bible.. Rollo I must say, you have said some things that were money. But this statement above and the spin plates theory are one of the best on sosuave. Keep up the good work.:yes: