"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Silent One Hitters That Screw With Chicks
- Thread starter The Mad Ghost
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
"Really now ...."
"O, is that what happend?"
"Enlighten me"
BananaSmile
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 8, 2009
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- "Sure thing, sweetheart!"
- "Hey, knock yourself out."
- "Hmm..... no."
- "I'm fine too, thank you!" (in response to "Where are you?")
- "No, I only date girls who I'm completely un-attracted to." (in response to "Do you like me?")
- "Well, good luck with that!"
- "Sweetheart, you got eyes. You tell me!"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
"Whatever you say, your Highness."
Said with a mild hint of sarcasm and with a smile.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Some more.
"The story is cool friend"
"Dat Sh*t Go My Nigga!"
"Thumbs up"
"Super cool"
"Why aren't you out with your girls?"
"Why aren't you out?"
"Really, No, seriously?" (really surprised)
"What a charmer/stud you're"
"Alright Kitten"
Replies for typical chic-lingo:
Get a life:
1. I'm not dead. 2. I'l settle for yours. 3. I never died. 4. From where?
^__^
Don Juan
"The kitchen's that way"
"I'm sorry, I wasn't listening" (best)
"Send me a postcard"
"Yeah... mhhmm.... wow... damn.... awesome.... ok...." (throughout conversation)
"May God bless you"
"Good luck with your adventure"
5string
Master Don Juan
That is priceless! My all time favorite, although not nearly as funny is "so what"?DangNammit said:
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
Lulz ensued.^__^ said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.